This. “‘When men are asked if there is any likelihood they would force a woman to have sex against her will if they could get away with it, about half say they would,’ said Dr. Neil Malamuth, a psychologist at the University of California at Los Angeles. ‘But if you ask them if they would rape a woman if they knew…

Addiction is a terrible, horrible thing no one should be idolizing. Seeing someone you love waste away and give up on everything is devastating. Anyone glamorizing additction as anything but tragic needs a reality check.

This is like a weird porn industry version of “it was just the times!”

This story has made it VERY FUCKING CLEAR that the porn industry does not care about its female performers, is blatantly ok with them being rough-handled and raped on screen, and did not care to pretend about it at all until the allegations were made public. Kink.com and all these other studios can pull away from…

Right? Like yeah Stoya is a vindictive lying bitch, but I don’t want to throw her under a bus. But to be clear if I saw a bus coming and she was in arms length I would definitely give her a shove. BUT I WOULD’T THROW HER.

Ummmm no. If rape is wrong, then it’s wrong. Even suggesting rape as a punishment is gross.

The person, who identifies himself as male, also says that while Deen is an “asshole,” he’s not a rapist...

I love Jon and all he does.

Not the point, but post-show Jon Stewart beard = YUM.

Okay if I am naked from the waist down why am I wearing a dress shirt? In what situation does this make sense? I guess I could go through the Taco Bell drive thru like that but,..

I’m with you. I’m really tired of pretending like internalizing the patriarchy is somehow liberating for women just to make sure I’m on the internet’s most cutting edge of feminism. I get it, sisters are doing it for themselves and I love to dance alone as much as the next lady, but come on. We’re only serving men by…

Teenagers are dumb and boring, jesus christ.

i think BDSM and porn consumption can be healthy parts of the sexual relationships of consenting adults—but i do question the psychological health of exposing oneself to porn that depicts non-consent and training one’s brain to get off on watching someone get raped, beaten, and humiliated against their will (whether…

Yup. I always told people—look, if the performers didn’t agree to those interviews, they wouldn’t have been contracted or paid. They had no choice but to be perky and smiles on camera. If every Wal-Mart purchase you made came with a smiling 60-second interview video of your cashier telling you how much they loved…

Kink studios are vile, and always have been. Maggie Mayhem, one of the most progressive voices in the sex positive movement, called them out years ago for being a sanctuary for violent and misogynistic acts against women. Her original blog post was taken down, but an excerpt was published on XOJane in 2013.

Found it - https://nplusonemag.com/issue-16/essay…

Reading articles about Deen this past week, I kept having James Franco pop up in my head. I wondered why? There’s no resemblance - and then, oh yeah, that article I read nearly two years ago! Thanks.

Here’s my favorite. It’s so beautiful *wipes tear from eye*

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