I think the concept of settling down is ridiculous. You can do plenty of traveling, studying and career-building while in a serious relationship or married. Having a relationship doesn’t automatically mean your life has to become boring.

I once went to a wedding where the dj kept playing the jazzy opening theme to Sex and the City

I haaaate the follow-back game on Instagram and refuse to do it. I’m following less than 300 people, and only follow those who are friends or whose work I’m generally interested in - I like to have a manageable feed I can stay up on. Hashtags are my only concession (you can have thirty per post, and with a little…

Those are mostly stage names or earned honorifics, you know that, right?

A bit more than half, but virtually all of them spent most of their lives being called by those names by people who it likely never even occurs to, to question it.

Most of those are stage names adopted in adulthood. Those people are actually named Ella, Madonna, Edward, William, Curtis, Melissa, and Dana.

Aren’t 90% of those stage names? (Also, Missy is a nickname for Melissa, not a title.)

I love her and I agree. I also love Sasha Velour. She is the one who stimulates me most artistically. She’s just so different, like Kim Chi but with more other talents also. This year’s Drag Race really had the best final four contestants of all the years. Even many of the past winners were forgettable. None of these…

Sir is a title, not a name, for chrissakes.

I was a little upset about the finale too, but there was always something a little off about Shea, no? Like a jack of all trades / master of none thing going on.

Please tell me the secret to being ungrayed on Jezebel.

How did you get out of the grays? Teach me your ways!!!

I get excited if one of my replies on a kinja site gets 25 stars.

It’s almost like men who are serial cheaters view women as possessions rather than as people.

I didn’t read it as him blaming Beyonce, but it did sound like he was putting some of the onus on the woman/women he cheated with. Which is stupid. It may take two people to cheat, but only Jay decided to do it on his own. His cheating partners can’t make that decision for him.

You have to be aware that the girl’s name isn’t actually Becky...no one is that dense.

Yeah, and I don’t buy for one minute that he’s done fucking around. Maybe he’ll be more careful for a while, but I would be shocked if he stays faithful considering he has self identified as a inveterate cheater for years. From that song he did with Foxy Brown: “ain’t no stoppin this, no lie, promise to stay…

It’s actually never been confirmed that Rachel Roy is Becky, or even that there is just one woman who is Becky.

Did we ever even confirm that she was THE Becky and not just someone whose name is Becky who was making a joke and accidentally stirred up Beyoncé’s deranged lynch mob of fans?

I don’t see anything in the article about this being a shock, just a nice track.