I mean she was definitely not expecting to be drugged and raped. Whatever she was expecting, it most certainly wasn’t that.... I agree with you in that I would definitely not have gone back there alone, but it seems like she did go with her friends and those girls just let her get snatched. She didn’t bring her…

RIGHT. But apparently that is REALLY HARD. Like this girl who defended her friends who doing nothing while she was abducted and said nothing afterward. I can understand if you’re afraid and don’t want the same thing to happen to you. But afterward what you are doing is defending a rapist and leaving your friend out to…

I do wonder how young she was and what chain of events actually happened. Like did he say he’d hang back because she went back with some of her girlfriends? Did she insist he hang back? Did he just get salty that he wasn’t invited and leave? Because I do think it can be exciting and you feel really special being asked…

Right. Minimizing someone’s experience as “making a big deal out of things.” Telling a woman what really happened when they weren’t even there. It’s like, “no you’re not doing this because you care. You’re doing this because you don’t want to feel culpable.”

EXACTLY. It’s just SO AWFUL. You were assaulted and the person who’s supposed to have your back just fucks with your head over it. And yeah I really hope she found a more supportive group of people. Even her friends man. Like it’s very gracious of her to not blame her friends for freezing but I went to a big 10 state…

The part about the girl’s boyfriend is heartbreaking. The fact that he would believe she cheated on him before he would believe she was attacked is so fucked up. Come on guys. Get the fuck over yourselves and be there for your women.

I think it’s super interesting! Again it reminds me of elite athletes in so many ways. People talk all the time about why Tom Brady has made it this long while his peers retire years younger (and no it’s not from the energy of pure evil). You push your body because this is your livelihood and passion but not always in…

I think it’s just having bad vocal coaches and initial techniques. What worked when she wasn’t performing all the time can’t work now with the volume of work she has to do but like athletes as well, instead of taking a break, doubling down on strong technique and foundation, and building up to the craziness, she and…

And yet for the past few years, aside from a role here and there in the Pitch Perfect franchise and the charming Edge of Seventeen, Steinfeld has confusingly pivoted to singing thinly veiled pop songs about masturbating and guest verses on EDM songs.

Her fans are not her family and they don’t know her or Pete Davidson. Assuming off the bat that someone with a mental illness is going to be dysfunctional in a relationship is irresponsible, stupid, and judgmental. Yes, dating someone with a chronic illness like back pain, multiple sclerosis, or even a fucking food…

Right. Like no one is saying people haven’t been on shitty dates. Maybe your date talks too much about themselves. Maybe they’re constantly on their phone. Maybe they even end up OBVIOUSLY ditching you for another person. All of those things are douche moves. But I feel like at some point, specifically with the stuff…

I feel like that’s gotta be kind of embarrassing? People are SO USED to you doing that on the regular that now when it’s intentionally mocked, people just can’t tell the difference.

I think it’s very honest about what parenting is, which is that it’s both. At the start you really see how fucking exhausting it can be, which it can if you’re 9 months pregnant with a kid who has special needs, a school that doesn’t necessarily want him to be there, and a husband who means well but maybe isn’t the…

I think it really is how much Theron can convey with a single slight body movement or shift in facial expression. In Tully she says so much without saying anything at all. It’s just so fucking good.

The part where she calls her a caricature of a black woman is especially offensive. Banks doesn’t have authority over how black women can or cannot act. It goes back to the madonna or whore, mammy or the jezebel dichotomies. Either black women are the monolith from which we place Michelle Obama at the top of the…

I actually was not aware of this video.... Wow. Clearly I live under a rock. Or am a meme clairvoyant.

Not sure why he looks so pensive though...?

I’m.

Junot Diaz. Sherman Alexie. SIGH. Who will we be disappointed by next? Ta-Nehisi Coates better be on his best fucking behavior.

Nope. COPS. Everyone gets a cop.