I don’t believe all cops are like this. Many do have empathy and they’re professional when it comes to dealing with victims. But I remember reading an article on rape and they quoted a cop who said half the rape reports he gets are false. Statistically that’s incorrect. If a woman reports she’s been raped there’s a…

Yes, it may be true that domestics aren’t always a clear-cut case of “right/wrong” and we still have anachronistic views of “privacy” even when women are asking (pleading/DYING) for help, but another BIG problem with cops on domestic calls is that a high percentage of cops are perps. Police unions actively lobbied to…

I’m a cop, I’ve dealt with my fair share of domestic disputes. I don’t think this at all. From what I’ve seen, for a woman to call 911 and report something, I know more often than not it already took her a lot to even report anything. For a first time domestic dispute my question is always, “How long as this been…

These seem to be the ones who empathize more with fetuses than with women faced with unwanted pregnancies.

This is the reason why many states have an automatic arrest for domestic violence. They don’t leave it up to the woman (and in some cases man, if he is the victim). They just arrest. And then they go through the system, that at least allows the victim to get a no contact order and the abuser to get anger management…

Leaving is when abusers pull out all the stops: manipulation, destroying self esteem any way possible, worse violence than ever. Quietly make a plan and go, at least temporarily, where they won’t find you, like a shelter or out of town. Cover your tracks: they will try to get information out of anyone they can,…

It just always seems odd to me that when men are violent they seem to be held accountable except when it comes to some crimes against women.

It boggles my mind why there are so many man that relate to abusers instead of the abused. That’s why you get rape and domestic violence apologists polluting the internet and founding “Men’s Rights” groups. Apparently the “rights” they want is the “right” to rape and abuse with impunity. I still think (hope) that they…

I have an abusive sibling that I stay the hell away from as an adult. A few christmases ago I made an innocent enough comment that set him off and he made a move in front of everyone to punch me. All I heard the rest of the day was, why do I have to set him off and why do I ruin holidays for everyone, etc. The sad…

Look at Mariah.

A man. They tend to be violent towards women.

In keeping 'with the times' it seems the TMI confessional, everything-that-passes-through-my-brain sh*& is her gig.

Whatever happened to "singing to your steering wheel" and leaving it at that?

In today’s culture (leaning hard on my cane) the stranger, kinkier, most flagrantly outrageous stuff is vying for our hate-enjoyment. And not in a cool/what-the-hell David Bowie way.

She needs to learn how to write songs because she clearly doesn’t know how. Like anything else songwriting requires training and practice. John Lennon said the early songs The Beatles wrote when they started out weren’t good. They needed practice and experience to become better. I don’t think Miley is a trained…

It sounds like she wrote it in the car on her ride home and the wonderful thing about modern technology is that instead of it just being something she sings to herself or along with friends, she can upload it to the web and share it with everyone else, including some who could relate.

I really, really don’t get her. I mean, I know most people don’t, but I don’ even understand what’s the goal here? I mean, sorry, but the way she talks about drugs like its NBD is ridiculous - people die from this fucking shit, and if she kept talking about how much booze she drinks she’d probably be forced into rehab…

When is she going to realize no one is shocked anymore?

stop trying so hard, miley.

Hitting her bong?? You mean Miley Cyrus does DRUGS? COLOR ME SHOCKED.