Unity is a nice goal in theory. In practice unity means the silencing of dissent. Dissent and disagreement are normal, healthy things that should be allowed to exist in any political movement. It's how we learn from one another and grow as people and activists.

Asking for unity without addressing inequality is not unity. It's easing the fears of a privileged group who find themselves slightly uncomfortable.

At the demonstration against NZ rape culture this past weekend, I was brought to tears by the courage of survivors who spoke or wore signs that indicated they had been sexually assaulted and bore no shame. One wore a placard saying "I will never be silenced again". But walking amongst about a thousand other…

I'm saying as a Asian woman that it's actually a huge pain in the ass to date, and that unless you have been in our place, you have no idea what it's like. To say that Asian women are just looking for white man because white stereotype is infuriating and infantizing. We live in a white culture. Everything we're ever…

For those of us here on planet Earth, we realise you are a poisonous douchecanoe with little experience of life.

I would groom Jon Hamm with my tongue.

My mother is a coke addict (not using, but once an addict always an addict as they say) and my father had alcoholism issues. I know I'm probably going to sound awful here, but here's my take on it:

Ok, I'll do that! Thanks for the helpful answer.

For everyone tiptoeing in to say "I know I'm going to get blasted for this but . . . cover up", every single last one of your arguments comes down to this one statement: "I just don't want to see that breast."

WHY?

It's a BREAST. It's a sac of tissue with a milk-hole on it. It's not genitalia. There's a 51% chance that…

Kyle, I'm considering your comments, but they do come off as fairly personal and aggressive. I'm not "stooping" to call all of his exes liars, and I of course I stated the facts to him. And then showed him how I do come. I'm not interested in tearing down his ego (on account of loving him). But the fact that your…

Paladin, meet Atlas. Atlas, like you, is a man carrying a heavy burden.
His is the world. Yours, it seems, is the clitoris.