Your experience sounds too much like mine.

If it sounds toxic, it is toxic. Nothing good will come of continuing this.

Cut him out. He’s toxic, and his behavior is bound to escalate.

Came here to ask, WHO THE FUCK CARES?

Reading the comments blows my mind. I wash my face with soap and water. If my face gets dry, I put the extra Queen Helene’s Cocoa Butter from my hands on it. If I get a super dry or itchy patch (what would be “ashy” on a darker complexion) I slather some Vaseline on it and it’s gone in the morning. I’ve missed out on…

Short hair also helps, fwiw.

Same but I broke ours with a tiny snide comment during Christmas shopping. My husband was acting all sorts of huffy about carrying something large through the store so I said “oh just give it to me you big baby.” And I took it and carried it. He grabbed my arm (that’s how you get a deaf persons attention when they are…

Oh, how I love short hair. My face is too round to really rock a pixie but I have one anyway— it’s easy to maintain and it’s a giant FUCK YOU to everyone who thinks women should keep their hair long because...ummm...reasons, I guess.

Man that is just like my engagement story. I was putting away some groceries while my husband was doing the dishes and he said “Let’s get married” and I said “Sure”.

Great piece. And may I recommend getting fat? I am completely invisible now. But nothing makes men angrier than a fat feminist who loves herself. Example number one - Lindy West. She rocks.

Ariana prefers to be objectified as an infant, a sexy infant.

I got this vibe from it.

Yep. She was good at it, but it was standard Wise Mentor, except it was a bald white female Brit. The honest thing to say here would be: Look, they wanted a white Brit who was offbeat with a certain cachet and they didn’t want to think too hard about the Asian thing.

That’s my size too, and honestly I get most of my bras at Target. The Maidenform ones are pretty decent and affordable.

Can we just not promote women barely out of their teens stomping down a stage in their underwear, please? I’m so over it. VS had their heyday in the mid 90s and early 00. Let’s just put them out of their misery.

And full of woman who are all A cup and B cup, so really they could go braless. Lets see some woman with big breasts up there! Oh yeah, thats right, VS doesn’t want our bodies represented.

No hope? It’s happening. Have hope. Put your fucking downer bullshit aside and let’s try to make something good happen.

I know in my logical place that there is no hope here but I’m still in the painful stage of grief from this election (as in sick to my stomach on a daily basis) and I know this will ultimately lead to more pain because I dared but hope but shit man, am I hoping.

I hate to show my age here, but — YES.

Trust me, youths: You need to consider the long-term health of your delicate bits alongside short-term aesthetic concerns. There are reasons why routine hair removal might not be such a grand idea, reasons that always seem to be left out of these discussions.

Do what makes you…