So what he's saying is that his ex-girlfriend was a slutty, selfish, gold-digging black woman who didn't keep herself clean, had implants, and didn't give him enough attention? Oh, and after like seven years of only wearing Birkenstocks and maybe overalls, she admitted she'd had 3 kids that she didn't tell him about…

Oh ok. But I saw from your comment history that you seemed to have no problem with the men/trolls above and below this comment who have denigrated my body type and my actual body respectively. But good on you for telling me a thing or two. If you read further you'd see further discussion of the comment. And thank you,…

You have to check the comment on the original thread by MudBud. Body politics indeed.

Hmm. Nice try but not without an invitation.

Oh and enjoy that wine. I'm indulging and buying my first ever case of wine next week and will def raise a glass to all my full-bootied and flat-bootied sisters.

Exactly. I don't understand how people stay so worried about other people's "stuff" anyway.

Ha! I'd never make fun of it. I have my own ass-conscious moments, that's just too close to my heart.

Yeah she could have implants, but you're obviously not familiar with the body types of many black women. I have this body with no silicon in sight and I am in my mid-forties and neither sagging nor looking disgusting, nor do I plan to. This is the case for many black women and others with african heritage, So, speak…

Anyone who refers to groups of people with a preceding article, i.e., "The gays..." the Blacks, the Mexicans, has a lot of work to do. That is all.

Well said. I don't understand being ashamed of having money. That is a gift be happy, be grateful, be generous of spirit and keep it pushing. I did not have such privilege but I had others, hell in my space having education in privilege, traveling, doing new things is a privilege even on my pauper's budget. I know I'm…

That sounds like heaven. I once sat across from a man on the A train who pulled out a jar of some sort of cheese sauce studded with brown and green chunks, a spoon and a muffin. I will stop there because, self preservation.