I just use water and my hand to wash my vulva, like many doctors say. If I feel particularly stanky, I’ll use a gentle soap.

Exactly. The long term earning potential matters significantly

Well that’s your weakness then. Needing to “get even” probably means you have an over-than-average ego, which is a hindrance in many ways.

Nicely put

Who the hell is Melo? Everyone knows LA LA

Half the reason I don’t want kids is birth/what it does to your body. The other half is losing my autonomy.

I feel like society glosses over this trauma!!

Can we not perpetuate the stereotype that older never-marrieds have something wrong with them?

Or maybe just monitor how many crazy leg diseases you get on the unwashed leg.

I kick top sheets off anyway so I prefer a duvet cover I can wash. Top sheets are annoying and bunchy

I live for comment board hand-wringing re cleanliness!

Ahhhh I used to watch her on you tube!! She does a cute song about being short with pete Davis

I know guys who do this. Start up tech company. It’s grosssss

Teaching in Germany is a prestigious job and many have PhDs

Well teachers have school loans. Also, what about junior teachers?

Well done

Somehow I doubt men will step up unless there’s enough money and prestige for them

It’s not jez if it’s not petty

Spoileralert!!

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