mazel tov! you HAVE to post pictures.

all i can think is “ fuck this motherfucker.... i hate him, depraved piece of shit.” i wish i could add more to the discussion.

this poor chick didn’t learn shit from patricia arquette. i mean, jeezus.

i hear you. i actually like durham better than raleigh too. it feels a little more urbane to me, even though it’s tiny. chapel hill is super cute, too expensive though. b of a has moved most of its stuff back to ny. and folks i know who live there tell me charlotte is really trying to diversify it’s economy. i want to…

lordt this is too much for me early in the morning. this close to ugly crying. extra points for the shout-outs to gabby union. beautiful girl, but mean, mean, mean.

yes, that was my second thought (after”yay! beautiful hair and no bad wigs!”) - patricia arquette. i’m still irked about that.

awesome! thank you. It’s a few years away, but i plotting my move makes me feel better. i feel like i can’t go with raleigh or charlotte. spent time in both over the summer and went to the beach. nc is a lovely state.

hey - i grew up in the D! but i’ve spent the bulk of my adult life in the nyc area. i love my access to music and art and stuff, but it’s so expensive and i need a cheaper place to live. i’m over the weather, too, which is better than the D, but still too much.

by the time i can move, my kids will be moved out. does that change your answer.

yeah that is a concern, but it’s also closer to asheville

thinking of moving to NC - what do you think of Charlotte? I thought it was filled with lax bro bankers (not that there’s anything wrong with that) but i was there over the summer and pleasantly surprised by their pride weekend.

I prefer to be called Ms by kids under 18 and make my kids address grown ups the same way. I live in a predominately white, very affluent community. The vast majority of black women you on a daily basis are nannies. I am not a nanny. Kids referred to nannies by their first names, even other kids’ nannies and other…