I always felt out of touch with the West Coast rap at that time (although I loved Cube’s AmeriKKKa’s Most Wanted) because even though I was living in L.A., I was working at a group home for teen girls. I saw first hand how the lyrics affected those young ladies and how young men felt about them. Everybody didn’t have…

I’m sure I’m older than you and you’re only the second person I’ve heard use the term “Selling wolf tickets”. It’s something my father said all of the time. Thanks for that trip down memory lane.

The response reminded me of the reaction brothas had to a song called Scrubs by TLC. For you young un’s, Scrubs was a song that came out in the mid 90's. It was basically women saying they didn’t want to be bothered with a dude who didn’t have his shit together. After no less than 650,000 songs calling women bitches,…

I fully acknowledge it.

So much truth here. I once told a brotha about the privilege we have just being men and he looked at me like he was crazy. I asked him if he ever had to think twice about what he wore because he might get touched inappropriately. His response was that women would be disappointed if they got dressed up and didn’t get…