If attention must be payed to the royals, only one needs to be scrutinized: Andrew.

Until my husband, I had never found anyone who could keep up with me and no one who was as sexually open as I was (and I’m not even that kinky!). The last guy I dated before I met my husband many years ago was older, wiser, and had more sexual partners (which was a feat because I had an active early 20s). It started…

I can’t tell whether this is a sarcastic, satirical comment. It seems like a silly thing to thing, but I’ve also seen such wild shit sincerely put forward among the Jez commentariat, that I’m just going to assume it’s for-real and respond accordingly.

that’s not how straightness works, friend

Some women do enjoy sex with men quite a bit, while others do not. You can’t make a sweeping judgement on all women based on the very small sampling of things you have read.

“The first time” will always be a balance between, “I want this or I don’t”. Waiting might be make it a bit clearer (one hopes), but how long does one wait then? Purely personal person per person

That guy was more aspirational than realistic. This wasn’t the first time he told me he was something that he was the polar opposite of. Also he didn’t lose his virginity until he was 20. And he lost it to the first woman who asked him to have sex when he was super drunk. He didn’t know her and never saw her again. I…

Sigh- that reminds me of what I think is the funniest line from Superfreak “When I get there she’s got incense, wine and candles/It’s such a freaky scene” I mean it probably refers to the threesome but incense, wine and candles are like the most vanilla thing I can imagine... though most people I’ve encountered just…

You contradicted his sexual identity. That ties directly into the ego.

Yeah, and I mean, don’t get me wrong - I actually like sexting, it’s totally fine by me. But a few times I noted that it seemed to be the actual, and only, thing going on that he’d be interested in pursuing. Didn’t really work for me - I’m totally fine with casual relationships, totally fine with monogamy/serious…

As a 40+ year old man, I’m not even gonna try to argue against this. My wife used to be far more sexually aggressive than me and I thought that’s what I wanted. My old defense was that I just didn’t have enough in the tank. I couldn’t bounce back physically. And that was partially true. In truth, I just didn’t have…

I really enjoyed the perspective of this article, as I identified with this a great deal. Being also in my 40s and growing up in Los Angeles, what was ok to do, and what was not ok, always felt kind of ambiguous. I’d have guys applaud my sexual initiative, but then recoil if I brought up any kind of emotional…

Someone on here explained to me that guys are super embarrassed if they don't live up to the sex crazed stud they're supposed to be. Instead of challenging that and being secure in whatever they want, they blame us for their inability to match our desire.

One thing I used to wonder about is what guys who got girls drunk or roofied them got out of the experience in a purely physical way—if your partner is literally passed out, they can’t be participating in any meaningful way.

Meghan’s bullying was probably disagreeing with the people that thought they knew better than her and her setting clear boundaries. 

Absolutely none of the men I’ve dated could keep up with me there, which was fine - I have no problem adjusting expectations, as that’s what you do in a relationship within reason - but any of the ones who claimed to “want” that from me had a ticking clock on them from how long it went from approval to sheer malice.…

Throughout my 40+ years being a woman in the United States, I’ve learned that men who say they want a woman who loves sex and asks for it are on par with the men who say they want an intelligent, independent, direct woman: soon after they get what they want, they don’t want it anymore because they don’t like it but…

I’m guessing that one of the leaks is probably a former staff member who may have been shown the door. And I bet they were compensated for their intel.

Australia has had a ton of lockdowns despite taking very strict measures...Yes, overall the countries that took stricter measures fared better but it’s not like they’re anywhere near back to normal either.

Where did I say that human psychology should be the guide, or that people should get a pass for risky behaviour?