You could say that about a lot of caregivers though. What Matt goes through I wouldn't wish on anyone.

LOL, best comment here hands down.

To me you've done far more morally wrong than Matt to take that view, to have the audacity to judge him. What gives you the right to judge him, to declare him a liar and a rapist ? That you're so comfortable doing so, that makes me not just distrust your judgement. It makes me detest you.

If people can not sympathize with him, that really says more about them than it does Matt now, doesn't it ?

You missed the point if that matters to you.