This is why I want a destination wedding that I just have to show up for. If people want to come, they can pay to make the trip, I'll be low-stress married, and my family will get an awesome vacay together.

@hussein persepolis hussein: Denver. I actually just did a google search and it popped up. It was a serious score.

@hussein persepolis hussein: It's a local bakery called Mermaid Bakery. LOVE IT.

I love cupcakes because it's the PERFECT amount of cake to satisfy my sweet tooth without making me feel like a glutton. And my favorite cupcake bakery is adorable without being too twee, with the most delicious gluten-free cupcakes I've ever had.

For some reason I was think about Twilight as I was driving the other day, and how hot R. Patz is as Edward (when he's not Edward? not that hot. I don't get it). That's when it clicked - I don't find the all-encompassing creepy "LET ME WATCH YOU AS YOU SLEEP" unhealthy over the top devotion the least bit appealing.…

Embarrassingly enough (awesomely, enough?), my showchoir in high school would bust out some of our Golden Blues moves in choreographed manners like that at school dances. Our dance to "Superstition" was a big crowd pleaser.

My problem with one pieces is they tend to make me look boxy. I'm tall and lanky, so it's actually an achievement to make me look boxy and kind of, well, squat.

I'm more excited that Tina's going to be involved in the writing for her SNL gig more than her actual hosting.

@IWantYourSass: Bigger question, why does an advertisement for "The Economist" pop up? Missing their target audience, methinks.

@Le Kangourou de Kataroo: I'm sorry to everyone I offended. I didn't mean to put an entire of category of people into a box like that. Some multiracial people I know are very attractive. Others probably aren't. Just like everyone else.

@EKane: Thank you for putting words in my mouth.

@ronniedobbs: Thank you - this explanation makes sense. I wasn't trying to insult anyone, nor do I know what it's like to be multiracial. I'm not going to turn this into a "My best friend is multiracial" argument or discussion, but the point you made resonates.

@lucysnowe: I didn't mean it that way at all. Nor did I once use the word exotic. And it's not like I think about having kids like picking out a puppy, as someone insinuated earlier. I would explain myself, but god forbid I insult someone else.

@Le Kangourou de Kataroo: Maybe I'm an ignorant white girl, but I don't understand why it's so horrible to say that I find multiracial people for the most part attractive. The kids I used to nanny for had the prettiest skin tone and were striking. If someone could explain why this is offensive to me in a polite,…

I'm a white woman, so I honestly can't say that I understand where Jill Scott is coming from. I don't get upset though when I see black women dating white men. I'm mostly jealous of how beautiful their children will be - I think interracial children are absolutely GORGEOUS.

Whatever you do, MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT ALLERGIC TO THE MAKEUP. I am highly allergic to mineral makeup, and two years after stopping it I am finally getting my skin under control from the terrible deep cystic acne it caused as a (common) allergic reaction.

@Hortense: Blast from the past: I downloaded this song from NAPSTER.

@bluewine: This was the EPIC MOST IMPORTANT BATTLE EVER in middle school. I was (am?) firmly entrenched in the NSYNC camp, but "I Want it That Way" is STILL one of my guilty pleasures.

@Thus Spake KATE!: If he's going to buy me expensive chocolate I'm sold. Just don't shower me with kisses - that's illegal.

Also, Devon Sawa and Rider Strong = teh most dreamy evah.