I sang in a professional choir concert - my third contract with the company.  Feels good to do what I trained to do. 

Remain friends for now but don’t talk to him about this guy anymore and take him with a grain of salt now that you know he will behave like this.  Make all your own decisions about your own romantic happiness.  This guy may get worse and then phase him out and forget it.  Friends sometimes come and go.  Especially if…

Birthday party advice!!!!  Regarding the invitation list.  I am in a new, happy relationship.  Two couples - his two best friends and their girls - don’t mix that well with my friends.  I had a show, one couple came, and my best friend and makeup artist basically left b/c they offended him.  Then at another…

As someone who has battled addiction and knows the recovery community - therapy is what these guys need. Therapy, a recovery community, and calling out their belief system. Blaming the outside is the specific problem they have. And wallowing in self-pity. I can’t judge them for getting surgery. Self improvement, if it…

I legit broke up with someone because I hated his paintings so much. These hideous ugly, tacky, and often sexist or disturbing oil paintings that made me ill every time I stayed over. His aesthetic was so not mine I really didn’t want to deal with merging our styles.

I used to think that.  But the weather is kind of a nice change to the drier more intense heat, there are like no parking restrictions b/c it’s a small town and a lot less traffic, and the pace of life is slower.  I went to parties around Coachella without going to the fest and I enjoyed just being rejuvenated simply…

Thank you.  You get it. 

THIS THIS THIS

Right. As a straight woman I have my DM’s flooded in instagram, and I ignore them unless it’s a dick pic in which case I flag. Easy. Done.  

Persisting when deflected, harassing, and abusing power are not ok, but the emphasis on the straight dudes feeling all up in a tizzy rubs me the wrong way. It would be the shock of the century to me if his predatory behavior did not also extend to some gay men...and knowing how many straight men approach my gay male…

If Tati cared so much and wanted to take such a big part in supporting his success, why the hell didn’t she give him an endorsement contract herself and pay him for it, with a legally binding contract, with exclusivity to her brand of vitamin written in? I have a client who was making music with some YouTubers, and…

‘Now that I understand how sex works, I realize that his positioning was off. His hands didn’t go up by where your imagined head would be, but rather down by your hips’ - I know how sex works, and hands on my hips is vastly preferable to hands by my head during le humping ;) 

Yay!! Enjoy. Well part of the reason a lot of the guys I swiped on were inundated with options and thus, I assume, harder to pin down, is that I’m in LA so it’s really hard here. Everyone has so many options that apps are hard to use for relationship seeking. BUT it can be done. Of course it can lead to a…

I’m 40 and have been dating on apps over the last year. I hooked up with some of the hottest men of my entire life over the last year. Several younger guys, and all mega hot. Most of them weren’t interested in dating seriously, and I got hurt here and there a little bit, but I also had fun. Now I’m settling into a new…

I can understand you’re disappointed and hurt, and won’t enjoy it as much without him. It happened to me once and I was let down and it was the beginning of a slowly unraveling end. However, I think you can express your disappointment - and offer to celebrate his birthday with him when you’re back.  Plan something…

Right?  But probably with her coloring likely will not, I would think.  

It’s so bizarre. Seems like such a casual name! 

I think that was the plan to elongate her even more.  Looked fantastic, in my opinion! 

not sure where you live, but dating in the 40s is not as hard as it may have been in the past.  try some dating apps or websites and enjoy meeting new people.  it can be fun, even when the dates are bad b/c you can entertain your friends.  when you’re ready, of course! 

This is exactly what underlies all the tension.  I have been feuding with fellow jezzies about this concept but this is 100% it.