Ha ha. ;) Well, I’ve been emotionally abused by guys who didn’t want to or couldn’t support me. For various reasons. So I’ve been taught to feel guilty! I don’t anymore and that’s awesome. We’ll discuss financial divisions when we move in somewhere together. In reality, I have a fairly clear idea what his income is,…

Good question. I don’t think he would say or think that, because he knows in detail my struggle with my ex, and what a selfish and manipulative man he was. He knows my financial situation in explicit detail, my assets my debts and my income - I know his in a bit less detail but pretty much a clear idea, and we have…

The guys who DIDN’T want to take me on any trips - were always cheating. But a good woman looks the other way, and has no expectations, I guess?

Yeah totally. I live in my own place, pay my own bills, but can’t currently afford to pay for a big trip. My boyfriend wants to take me on a memorable trip. I’m such a whore.

never been classified this way in therapy. only been assessed as on the spectrum of co dependency, which most of the human population is with varying degree. my friends categorize me as extremely loyal, generous, and i’m very attentive and emotionally supportive to my partners. you have to have a certain level of ego…

ha ha

One last thought - haha. I would LOVE to be very successful financially. I’m not yet. I get by. I would LOVE to make more than my partner. That said, I’d still love a guy to show me he values me frequently by giving gifts or opening a door or always picking up the tab at dinner. But me having all the success I want?…

I’ve gotten better at being alone. Yes I had to work at it. I also have gotten better at carefully selecting my mate. When I was younger, I’d fall for whoever chased me the hardest. Learnt the hard way that is NOT how to find mutual happiness. Luckily with online dating, I can be super picky and I have been. The…

Hi. First of all, it’s been a growing process even learning how to own up to my expectations of men. Some of my therapists have helped me clarify it and not feel so guilty about it, but really the best thing for me has been to end up accidentally finding guys who automatically treat me this way without me having a…

I use traditional dating apps. But, I’m seeking a traditional relationship. I just want to say, in the past eight months I’ve been on three lifetime destination trips, received $1000 shoes, jewelry, throw in a few fancy weekend trips as well as the big trips, and I’ve been offered some seed money for my advertising.…

it was so blatant. probably true. and anyway, her love affair with lamar was so intense he was kind of the love of her life. when that ends so badly, sometimes you just want a situation. a stable less passionate marriage. or a baby daddy. he’ll be a good baby daddy - he’s got his own bank roll. she doesn’t need the…

Not sure but I do know it’s the dorkiest expression I’ve ever seen, so I love it for that. He’s an idiot.

i know what you mean. if a guy is selfish or shitty lover, i get really frustrated and am left hanging and i’ll need to do him several times a day until i’m taken care of. otherwise, 1 - 2 and i’m good!

yeah for sure

Please note I am not in any way defending Cosby. I think he’s guilty over and over and over. And I’ve been date raped and in abusive relationships. I’m just saying these other professionals were just doing their job.

Not exactly. The photographer could be hired, to shoot a portfolio shoot or whatever in the hotel a ‘test shoot’ or whatever, and let go before he proceeds with his actions. Agent didn’t necessarily know, either. If a big star called an agent - the agent is going to give the client that opportunity it’s not their…

she’s so chic, isn’t she? she’s able to wear the most minimal makeup and look so gorgeous. so minimalist. and just so impeccably chic and tasteful. really miss the 90s! compare this to......the kardashians :|

omfg 😂

i love getting mine done. i also get it done subtly, and most people don’t know. it doesn’t leak. it isn’t permanent, it’s safe. and it doesn’t hurt that much to have done.

omgwhat? lol lol lol