Aren't food stamps by the month? While around $120 is no picnic it's doable with alot of double/triple meals of the same thing. Lots of stews and bowls. Lots of spaghetti too. Also clipping coupons like crazy! I remember my folks being on food stamps for a short while. It wasn't pleasant and it was almost a full time…

Agreed 100% Same with unemployment benefits. Last time I looked at it I qualified for $200 a week. I'd much rather be employed, trust me. This just makes sure I cover rent that month.

Is it possible to eat on that budget? Sure if you eat Ramen every single possible day (and many people do). Escaping malnourishment would be nearly impossible on that budget. Getting all vitamins, minerals, and proteins? Forget it.

Oh I'm not against loved ones being there. Just it should be primarily for you, not them and at the time for my folks it was ALL ABOUT THEM. I keep thinking about the BIG DAY too and honestly the hype of that day is just doomed to expectations most likely.

I think it's fair. I think the point I'm trying to make is honest communication is going to be the best thing for both parties. If a women wants to get married she should bring it up if she thinks the other would say yes. The guy should if he does.. It's not an either or, just both.

Those kinds of women truly turn me off too. Why can't it be something simple? Shouldn't a marriage honestly just be between two people. My parents did a court wedding, and had a small celebration at their house with their closest friends. They didn't invite family at all because they knew there would be drama and my…

Thanks, I actually am glad this article came out. I just wanted to point out one of the true times it DOES suck to be a man with the nervousness and uncertainty I imagine would happen and where women certainly would not want to switch roles that position.

Don't rush it though. Definitely have a few long good conversations first to be absolutely sure. Some times the timing can be off. There are no guarantees in this world. But if you think he's the one then do it. That part when he says yes may be the best moment of your life.

Maybe, maybe not. I think women still want that 'fairytale' whether or not they want to admit it. I think it'd be rather sweet to just have a conversation (after a long period of time in love). To each their own.

I'd seriously consider this and I'm a dude. My last name is boring anyway.

I'm all about the equality. Just something to consider. I think some of the problem is that women like the idea of a WEDDING but not necessarily MARRIAGE. I'm going to get some heat for this comment but it might be a little easier if women asked and I think sometimes when a woman accepts a wedding proposal they think…

I also find it very interesting that women don't want to change the gender roles because of fear of rejection. Guys have to do the exact same thing, ladies. Suddenly it's not so easy to be a man now isn't it? I don't mean this to be a dick. But with the white male privilege article, the nice guy article, and this…

Guys are thinking the exact same thing. Do it. I don't think you'd regret it when he said yes. Nothing's certain in this world but pursuing your own happiness is a worthy thing. I find it interesting how most women in this topic would be afraid of rejection. Guess what, so do men. A good primer is talking about what…

Do men think it's a surefire thing when they propose? Something to consider. Maybe with divorces being over 50% women should do more of the asking.

I am going to say up front I have very unconventional views about marriage. I'm a guy as well. I don't think it's necessary to get married, I think if you're married it shouldn't be a problem if it's an open marriage as long as you stay committed to each other, and I don't care what names you pick.

I realize white men get privileges not enjoyed by others and I myself got a job because my uncle owned the company (Republican, white, definitely enjoyed earlier successes). I also worked for not one but a few racist dickbags (not by choice and didn't find out until later). Those things I think white males could truly…

Hi former Nice Guy here. I agree with this. I have women asking ME out all of the time now on POF and Okcupid. At the bar no woman objects to me saying hi to them with no expectations other than a conversation. Nice should just be who you are as a default. Also being nice does get you things as a decent human being.…

Hi former Nice Guy here. Nice should just be who you are as a default. Also being nice does get you things as a decent human being. Do you have people that trust you and do you have friends that can rely on you? Awesome! Is that going to make a girl lust over you? No, but it does count in appearing not socially…