BJU did a study on dick size.

ask her if you crossed a line, and listen to what she tells you.

getting out of the greys

as an austin native, my first advice on SXSW would be "don't"

"darlen ure def all woman doll!"

i've been saying that the colors we see aren't the colors everyone else sees for years (is MY green the same thing as YOUR green????)

other touchdown jesus is ambivalent.

i still don't know what an ansel elgort is.

something tells me she's more likely to have angela davis or josephine baker raining blessings upon her recording sessions than madeleine albright.

Very true. Apologies are usually necessary for change, but are only worth something if followed up by meaningful action. The problem with abuse is that manipulation is such a big part of it, it's hard to know when the following actions or genuine or part of the abusive behavior. So an abusr may apologize, stop being…

two things:

i am so sorry that happened to you, i know how scary that must have been. even if he snaps only a couple of times a year, sometimes that's all it takes. and he may be the kindest person around other people, but how he treats you is what really matters.if you're scared of your spouse, even if it's only occasionally,…

there's no easy answer to that question, unfortunately. generally, it's a bad idea to warn new partners of your abuser. most likely, they won't listen to you because the charm he used to trap you is already being used on the new partner. and if he gets wind that you've warned the new partner about his abusive…

i can't imagine how difficult that must have been. i am so glad you were able to get out safely. you did the right thing. best of luck to you.

you are doing an incredibly brave thing!! your happiness and your safety are incredibly important, and if he won't respect that then i'm glad you're taking a stand. it's going to be tough, there's no easy way around that. dealing with a marriage ending is tough to begin with; when there's abuse in that marriage, it…

this. absolutely this.

you are definitely doing the right thing!!! your happiness and safety are incredibly important. i am so glad you have the courage to do this incredibly difficult thing. there are going to be tough days where you doubt yourself, but keep reminding yourself of the reasons that you're leaving, believe in your gut, and…

woooooow he sounds really fucking awful!! i'm so sorry you had to sit through even a minute of a session with that mouthbreather.

woooooow, he sounds really fucking awful!! i'm so sorry you had to sit through even a minute of a session with that mouthbreather.

i'm really, really glad it hasn't gotten to the point of you being hit; but i work with domestic violence victims/survivors and i can't tell you how many women in abusive relationships have told me "he has never hit me but...". if he has gotten to the point where he is punching holes in the wall, that is an escalation…