From a Jezebel article (which addresses female novelists, but which, imo, applies to the difference between the privileged and the marginalized):

It amazes me. NO ONE ever has to say to a woman, “imagine if it was your son or husband or father” in order for her to feel empathy or compassion. Empathy and compassion should be inherent for evolved human beings. It’s the fact that men rarely see women as 3 dimensional human beings unless or until there is one in…

It implies that men only care about women when they are their property.

They cant pass up an opportunity to mansplain.

Well, for what it’s worth, I think that’s bullshit. My sister and I often have to remind each other that we are not responsible for the happiness of our parents - all you can do in life is be your own best self, and if other people aren’t happy with that, well, tough. I think that applies to everybody, not just people…

I read this:

This made me laugh so hard. And yell at my husband: “You’re a Communist!”