I don’t think they sound like threats. I think she is venting.

Uhm, she may know the classes her daughter is taking, but looking the exact titles up in the time schedule and keeping a written or mental calendar of her daughter’s day does go into weird stalker territory.

I agree - this post is way over the top. Barring some dysfunctional family backstory, the adult child owes the parents polite behavior (returning calls, being nice) just as much as the parents owe the adult child polite behavior. Unless the adult child wants to break away from her parents entirely - including…

I don’t know the situation but I think you are reading a lot into this. It sounds like a frustrated mom dealing with a major transition period in the relationship. The rest is just projection. Eta: and to add, young people also have to learn to have a relationship as an adult with their parents. It’s usually a mutual…

Also, is no one else concerned that this rally looked like something out of Deliverance?