I find you dismissiveness disturbing.

As a queer woman I’ve definitely had experiences with other women where I felt my consent was violated (although, honestly, far more often with men.) This is sad but not at all surprising. I think this whole mess has showed us anyone can be a rapist; all it takes is disregard for other people’s wellbeing and the power…

I have to work with a woman who performed oral sex on me without my consent after she offered to designated drive at a work function, and I was passing in and out of consciousness.

She never said no?!?!

Sadly, I have been sexually abused by 2 women during our Halloween party about 10 years ago. I was really hammered. I came to when one of the girls boyfriend opened the door and screamed “what the fuck are you doing?!” When I came to, one was kissing me and the other was performing oral sex. These were my friends. If…

It sounds exactly like what a manipulative narcissist says, and my guess is that after Martinez raped her, she manipulated the rest of their friendship in hopes of having this memory suppressed or redefined or both. I also wouldn’t be surprised if she targeted Heller because she had codependent tendencies, that would…

I really can’t believe she said that. “She never said “no.” Like, that is just BAD. I thought almost anyone, other than old white republican men, knew that kinda language is more damaging than convincing.

Yeah, how could she not see how “she never said no” sounds? So many rapists say that about victims who quietly cried or tried to squeeze their legs shut. Ugh.

I beg you to imagine her role in this being a man. Girls can rape girls.

The entire statement is rife with bullshit language. “the story told by Timothy” = meant to imply fiction. They both have “demons” = meant to discredit. What we “chose” to do together = meant to imply consent.

An old friend/co-worker of mine was sexually assaulted by our female boss. I was in the room when it happened and at the time we thought what was happening was “crazy and funny”, now I look back and am so grossed out.

This is a truly harrowing tale of rape but I’m glad that this might lead to greater awareness of sexual harassment, assault, or worse in the LGBT+ community.

Good. I think its good to hear the stories that demonstrate how sometimes women can be just as evil as men. I certainly endured my fair share of cruelty, manipulation and coercion that involved sex acts I didn’t necessarily want to perform due to the power and control of a female “friend” when I was younger. No one is…

I was threatened before the event even started. I was just sitting there in my seat, after eating many delicious churros (hats off to the organizers for that - they were good). That’s when security guy “Bob” — who refused to tell me his name despite me asking again and again — told me not to make a disturbance and…

You’re a fucking moron.

Go fuck yourself.

Of course. A missed defensive holding call is beyond the pale and completely deserving of an unexpected decapitation attempt that forces the db from the game.

53% of white women voted for him.

Dude! If you want to turn this into a job, you have to stop giving this stuff away for free! (That said, I don’t think it’s the worst idea in the world for you to offer consulting services - you seem to have a good common sense approach.)

Hey dude, I am also a man, and honestly, I have to think that you are unqualified for leading a class on “how to not be trash,” (Your words). You admit to getting into a lot of fights. But never with women! Ok, that’s cool, but why are you getting into a lot of fights? If you get into a lot of fights, it probably is…