I'm steadily going gray and I'm in my late 20s. I AM FREAKING THE FUCK OUT. I'm just so grateful I don't have the world's paparazzi using super high res camera lenses to zoom in on the proof of my youths slow demise.

He was the epitome of everything I wanted a man to be as a 13 year old goth...

*blushes*

...not a single mention of Tarzan yet? glen keane's for the win, but davidkawena's close second.

I was always shocked that Pocahontas chose that dork John Smith instead of this stud...

That's quite the.... *ahem*.... silhouette going on there.

Based on the fact that most of us who have sex with men have had sex with Trent in some form or another IRL, he really should be first.

Kokoum please

I'm sorry, but this list is incorrect. TRENT SHOULD BE #1. End of competition.

All together now: STOP TRYING TO MAKE GOOGLE+ HAPPEN.

leave my imaginary husband out of this...

I apologize for the length of this, but I just want to reinforce that whole "rational" talk you mention.

Amen! I'm 30 feet away and your about to touch the hot grill? Not the time for a rational discussion. That is when you yell.

Gah, I'm in a similiar situation right now. He's kind of an asshole in general but I enjoy boning him. I know I should break it off to maintain my integrity but he's so damn attractive that I can't :(

I can't tell if I like him as a person for real or if a cloud of lust is fogging my vision. He doesn't know when to use your vs. you're (or worse, he doesn't care). And he really is a douche. Pros: funny and so, so beautiful.

I remember your post, and I'm glad that you guys talked. Throwing this out there: Maybe he wouldn't be such a terrible boyfriend? I know the type, and I know that your feelings about him not being a good boyfriend are probably on target, but maybe he would change if he knew your real feelings?

Okay Jezzies I have a SNS update! A while ago, I asked for advice because I was mystified by a fuckbuddy who was super apathetic while in my presence but enthusiastic about hooking up (texting me, wanting to meet up, etc.) and then upon seeing me, would be a distant jerk. I finally asked him if he was mad at me, and…

Do it, but also be prepared to work in a legal area other than where you want to be, at least for a few years, to pay off your debts, etc. 90% of the people I went to law school with went in with a specific purpose in terms of jobs, but didn't end up doing that after graduation. The situation where you live might be…

Go read the work Paul Campos has been putting up at Lawyers, Guns and Money and elsewhere. See just how good of a school you get into and what kind of scholarships you might receive. Keep in mind that that money might be pulled in your second year. Then decide.

To summarize: The world does not revolve around your penis.