I don't know if this will be helpful to you, but it was helpful to me: I don't think of depression as my real feelings and the struggle to act differently as being fake. I see my depression as a state in which I can't access all my feelings, and I work to regain that access, the way an athlete, after an injury, will…
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Oh oh oh you just reminded me of a thing a guy I slept with once said upon revealing to me his rather humble penis....
After the -9F bicycle commute this morning, they would have paid me to enter.
"Hang in"? Maybe not the best way to phrase it ;)
Trying to make Team Amber happen just makes it so, so much more embarrassing. Now I want to take 30 showers.
Team Meteor Strike.
When I got the opportunity to write this column, I was super excited and also concerned. I’m not good at giving…
You could invite some guys to your lesbian wedding and they'd think it was a date.
There is nothing worse than the guy who desperately stares at you in an effort to make eye contact, and if you look back at him, immediately assumes "she looked at me! That means a one way ticket to pound town, whoohoo!" Eye contact doesn't count as flirting if she can't avoid your gaze, dudes!
It's worth mentioning that you see the same thing in the gay male community a lot.
Because I'm super hot.
I noticed that after I got married, a LOT more women hit on me or flirted with me when they saw the ring on my finger....or at least I *thought* they were.
There was this guy today at the cafe, where we were the only two people in the room, and he kept on staring at me, while I was eating, doing homework, and using the phone. And as I was using Tinder, I saw his profile, it was quite racially charged and full of fetishization (think confederate flags, Yellow Fever,…
If absolutely no guy ever thinks you like him, what that really means is you're ugly, yes? (Because he doesn't like you, and thus isn't jonesing to either lay you or win your hand.)
"I am not now to learn,'' replied Mr. Collins, with a formal wave of the hand, "that it is usual with young ladies to reject the addresses of the man whom they secretly mean to accept, when he first applies for their favour; and that sometimes the refusal is repeated a second or even a third time. I am therefore by…
It's about this big.
Is it basic sexism, or evolutionary psychology?
now now. My 30 years of life experience has taught me that both sexes can be horny, thirsty assholes.