God, I hope she doesn’t not have children because 100% chance she will abuse them.

I’m so sorry that happened to you. The article frames this like a wacky episode, but that type of behavior is abuse and shows a chilling disregard for another person’s autonomy. Sorry that happened to you, and I’m sorry you had to read an article making light of this.

So they fucking let him in after this was confirmed to be not his fault, RIGHT?!

Let’s call this what it is, yeah? It’s emotional abuse. That is, intimate partner violence. I see nothing funny here.

Thank you for the scoop. Heartbreaking.

I’m still trying to process it. That was really one of the worst days of my life. I was so sad after he passed, and then the emotions of going through his stuff brought up so many memories, and then my brother showed me the paperwork. It felt like my soul just dropped out of my body, and I didn’t have any idea what to…

Well, you’ve revealed quite a bit about your character in your comment - on which my assessment is based. Nothing about what this woman did is humorous. And perhaps I missed it, but I don’t see that he is laughing about it - and whether or not he is going to be ‘just fine’ is irrelevant.

Oh my god, that is so terrible. So, so, so, so heartbreaking. I feel for you, I feel for the guy in this story—how do you ever trust someone again?

Back in the 70's I had a chance to go to college early with a full scholarship, skipping high school altogether. The college had reached out to me and sent me paperwork to fill out, which I did, and my father took the envelope and told me that he would drop it in the mail on his way to work. I was so excited, and I…

This post doesn’t mention what I think is the most insane part of the story. At the time of the acceptance, they had only been dating 5 months. She pulled this crazy evil shit for someone she had been dating for FIVE FUCKING MONTHS!!!!

My own mother did this to me. She hid my acceptance letter to my dream university and told me I wasn’t accepted. All so that I wouldn’t move a few hundred miles away.

Trying to destroy someone’s career is not trolling, and finding enjoyment in her attempt makes you a bad person.

it’s wild that she cared enough to attempt to fuck up this dude’s life cause she liked his dick but couldn’t show her face in court

So now im confused. It’s not his responsibility to go phisically collect the money from her is it? Why does he need to know her living address? isnt there a legal obligation for her to get the money to him?

My DH and I are classical musicians and this is all we have been hearing about for weeks in our social circle. Abramovitz has subsequently had a great career but he might have had an extraordinary one (soloist as opposed to principal player) had she not interfered.

Man, I always thought that it was required that things like this get done with real paper in the real mail specifically to avoid situations like this. Every school/job (like, career jobs, not part time retail jobs) I’ve ever gotten into *always* started with a real paper offer letter.

an acclaimed clarinet teacher who only takes two students a year.

That’s not trolling, it’s cruel, psycho level deception and sabotage.

Apparently she was served in person at her workplace, but just didnt bother showing up to court. http://www.ontariocourts.ca/search-canlii/scj/newdecisions-en.php?link=https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2018/2018onsc3684/2018onsc3684.html

This story is WILD.