I feel like babywearing has nothing to do with this-I babywear because my baby screams if I put him down and its useful to you know, feel like a person and have 2 hands and eat. I don’t think many people are babywearing to feel like some kind of hipster Vogue ideal of a settler/housewife

I’m not loving this particular dress but I’m happy to see any trend that I can wear a bra with!

Many decades ago, an older relative bought “Valley of the Horses” for my tween sibling because my sibling loved horses. Older relative did not read the book first! It was a learning experience for everyone.

You never taken care of a 3yo huh? They will sprint away if you turn your head for 3 seconds and be gone. They will sprint towards danger or away from safety, because they’re 3 and dont know anything.

Because we won’t be able to escape to Mexico?

Because every site and their momma talks to each other, collecting an entire picture of who you are as a person whether you want them to or not. My wakeup call was Facebook sending me targeted ads based on my porn habits even though I make a point not to be logged in to FB when I’m up to that. That might not matter to…

But few men have much commentary on vaginas.

It frustrates me so much that we, as a society, have found that it is preferential to lie to someone about our motives for a thing because it is so much easier than having someone not respect our saying, “I don’t want to” or “I don’t like this”. It applies in so many situations.

So I am nearing the end of three years paying off a medical bill for a small but necessary surgery (broke my forearm and needed pins) that I was insured for through my employer. Deductible was $2,500.

• Ugh, great. [New York Times]

If Hershey’s just gave the chocolate a living wage, the kisses wouldn’t need tips.

Why does every post on this blog end up an argument over tips?

Condoms do not “suck for both parties.” They can reduce sensitivity, but they don’t remove it. I never met a guy who couldn’t come while using a condom. And I dare say that sex with a condom is still more enjoyable than unwanted pregnancy, parenthood, or child support.

Watership Down is also a story about traumatizing the ever-loving fuck out of children by showing rabbits mauling the shit out of each other in a gory animated movie. 

I am getting SOOOOO tired of people listening to this woman just because she is insightful, thoughtful, and accurate. And funny. Women are supposed to quietly support men, not have different perspectives that make the final result better when they are taken into consideration.

Your comment is absurd.

Women, even very accomplished ones, are chronically judged by and insulted via their looks. It’s misogyny, and thus it’s a good habit to break, y’know?

Some births are deadly, no matter HOW much “primal instinct” you have. I watched a live-stream of a shelter/feral cat attempting to give birth, and after the second hour of struggling and pushing, the person running the show said, “nope, something’s wrong, taking her to the vet.” Turns out that the first of her 4…

Alex. You lose one hour *once* Just once. And everyone born after spring 2019 will NEVER lose it again. And fuck, it won’t be dark when you go home after 5 pm there come the deepest middle of winter. Isn’t that worth one last hour of your life? To not have that flip-flop is worth it, in spades.

You must have forgotten the lynchings and race riots of the twentieth century, where police gave white people carte blanche to murder black people (and sometimes handed out the guns to do it), and white people took them up on the offer every. single. time.