I feel like babywearing has nothing to do with this-I babywear because my baby screams if I put him down and its useful to you know, feel like a person and have 2 hands and eat. I don’t think many people are babywearing to feel like some kind of hipster Vogue ideal of a settler/housewife

I’m not loving this particular dress but I’m happy to see any trend that I can wear a bra with!

Many decades ago, an older relative bought “Valley of the Horses” for my tween sibling because my sibling loved horses. Older relative did not read the book first! It was a learning experience for everyone.

You never taken care of a 3yo huh? They will sprint away if you turn your head for 3 seconds and be gone. They will sprint towards danger or away from safety, because they’re 3 and dont know anything.

Because we won’t be able to escape to Mexico?

But few men have much commentary on vaginas.

• Ugh, great. [New York Times]

If Hershey’s just gave the chocolate a living wage, the kisses wouldn’t need tips.

Why does every post on this blog end up an argument over tips?

Condoms do not “suck for both parties.” They can reduce sensitivity, but they don’t remove it. I never met a guy who couldn’t come while using a condom. And I dare say that sex with a condom is still more enjoyable than unwanted pregnancy, parenthood, or child support.

Watership Down is also a story about traumatizing the ever-loving fuck out of children by showing rabbits mauling the shit out of each other in a gory animated movie. 

I am getting SOOOOO tired of people listening to this woman just because she is insightful, thoughtful, and accurate. And funny. Women are supposed to quietly support men, not have different perspectives that make the final result better when they are taken into consideration.

Your comment is absurd.

Women, even very accomplished ones, are chronically judged by and insulted via their looks. It’s misogyny, and thus it’s a good habit to break, y’know?

Some births are deadly, no matter HOW much “primal instinct” you have. I watched a live-stream of a shelter/feral cat attempting to give birth, and after the second hour of struggling and pushing, the person running the show said, “nope, something’s wrong, taking her to the vet.” Turns out that the first of her 4…

#MeToo has been around for 12 years, actually, and was coined by a black woman to help other black women process trauma. It’s not a movement by or solely for famous actresses.

Additionally, stop telling women that they are hurting other women by not naming names. These experiences are extremely painful and rehashing…

How about, maybe instead of putting the burden on abused women to submit themselves to a system that does not serve victims of abuse well, we make a systematic decision to teach men to respect women and teach everyone basic concepts of consent?  And then we transform the system so victims who come forward are not…

There are ways to get these people the proper IDs they need. It is a bit complicated but should work.

Same, I was an abused kid. And first time my older sibling took me to a haunted house they came at us with a real chainsaw (without a chain, but I didn’t know that being 7) I went right into survival, fight or flight mode and bolted for dear life. You couldn’t go back to get out due to the crowd and chainsaw guy was…

Are you a woman? I left an abusive relationship and got shit for not being loyal. I also got shit for not leaving sooner. There is no right way to exist.