Just listen to the soundtrack and picture her in hot pants and a midriff.
Just listen to the soundtrack and picture her in hot pants and a midriff.
Oh man. She peaked musically with 'Blackout' IMHO. I know it was her worst time emotionally/mentally, but damn that album was good.
I have never understood the 'Greek system' American universities have adopted. In Australia we have student housing (just typical apartments for students to live in near the uni) and societies which are aimed at targeting specific areas of interest (like drama, or language studies, or quidditch). Can someone please…
My kindy teacher would say at the beginning of every day - 'Everyone who hasn't bathed today should sit at the back of the room.'
Which sounds awful upon reflection but it was said in a joking manner and us kids took it on as a point of pride. Kids who hadn't bathed stood up proudly and moved to the back and the rest…
I love her. I love everything about her. If she doesn't end Fitz, I will cry a waterfall of fiery tears, then get my vengeance. Sorry - gladiators don't deal in vengeance - I will "fix" the problem.
I find that really it's not so much their happiness that brings me down. It's more this constant reminder of a path I might have been on had things been different. And if I'm having a bad day or a rough time, or life isn't panning out the way I'd hope it would, seeing this kind of thing can be really harmful. It's not…
I recently (a couple of months ago) deleted my Facebook account because I couldn't be Spicoli no matter how hard I tried. I just have this horrible fixation streak. My Facebook stalking was never hardcore or malicious, but it would bring me down. I'd see a post from an ex and I'd just feel bad. I'd scroll through old…
I'm going to put aside the fact that three of the dancers in this video have white skin (I'm not sure of their ethnicity, and don't want to speculate based on their appearance).
And I'm glad your cousin worked things out with her husband. I don't think - like many other people do - that cheating is an unforgivable sin. It's all dependent of the circumstance, and the person. But it takes a strong person to want to work through it.
I forgave my partner who cheated on me, we spent another year and a half together and I never regretted doing it. As far as I'm aware he never cheated again and we had some great times together.
I think it's natural to try and tear down or delegitimise the other relationship, but it's counterproductive to waste time…
Thank you. I was very young at the time and have learned since the weakness behind hurtful words spouted by people who feel somehow vindicated or righteous. I was so so lucky to have a parents who were nothing but supportive and loving at the time. And I think one of life's lessons is that many friends will come and…
I have a friend in a very similar circumstance, a guy who married this woman who had cheated on him copious times, and once with my boyfriend of a few years ago. It was so strange when they got married but he is assured she'd never do it again. But she had a full blown relationship with another guy right before they…
This was such a nice thing to say. Thanks. I have no problem with sharing the story. I don't have a friend who hasn't at least had the experience of liking someone already in a relationship. I feel like it's a common thing people need to learn to deal with when entering adult relationships. Some people go too far,…
'Victim' is a perilous word. It's all about perspective. I would've never used that word to describe my situation. I think these former friends were attempting to victimise me in a way to make me feel what the gf felt, as an act of revenge or more likely, a display of solidarity. But I owned up to my actions, I didn't…
Yeah, it's just awful when people hurl shit in either direction really, but it's insecurity and fear that inspires it. Dignity is lost on all sides, and no one wins. If someone chooses to advertise their affair in a bid to taunt the wife/husband/bf/gf who is being cheated on, you may well argue that they are asking to…
I just try my damnedest not to judge anyone by what they look like or what their behaviour might seem to indicate by the common observer. Certainly there are depraved and ugly human beings out there who treat hooking up with people already in relationships like a sport. But I'd guess far, far more of them are just…