Thank you. I was very young at the time and have learned since the weakness behind hurtful words spouted by people who feel somehow vindicated or righteous. I was so so lucky to have a parents who were nothing but supportive and loving at the time. And I think one of life's lessons is that many friends will come and…

I have a friend in a very similar circumstance, a guy who married this woman who had cheated on him copious times, and once with my boyfriend of a few years ago. It was so strange when they got married but he is assured she'd never do it again. But she had a full blown relationship with another guy right before they…

This was such a nice thing to say. Thanks. I have no problem with sharing the story. I don't have a friend who hasn't at least had the experience of liking someone already in a relationship. I feel like it's a common thing people need to learn to deal with when entering adult relationships. Some people go too far,…

'Victim' is a perilous word. It's all about perspective. I would've never used that word to describe my situation. I think these former friends were attempting to victimise me in a way to make me feel what the gf felt, as an act of revenge or more likely, a display of solidarity. But I owned up to my actions, I didn't…

Yeah, it's just awful when people hurl shit in either direction really, but it's insecurity and fear that inspires it. Dignity is lost on all sides, and no one wins. If someone chooses to advertise their affair in a bid to taunt the wife/husband/bf/gf who is being cheated on, you may well argue that they are asking to…

I just try my damnedest not to judge anyone by what they look like or what their behaviour might seem to indicate by the common observer. Certainly there are depraved and ugly human beings out there who treat hooking up with people already in relationships like a sport. But I'd guess far, far more of them are just…

I have been the 'other woman' and I have to say that despite my personal morality and distaste for cheaters, I was completely in love with this guy. He had been my best friend for years, he went out of his way to keep his relationship with her out of our social circle, he consistently made out like his relationship…

My bf just made a very good point. Couldn't they just go through an intense exercise and diet regime to bulk up into a stronger form? Like most actors and actresses do when offered a role which doesn't fit their body type. Such as Edward Norton in American History X, Tom Hardy as Bane in Dark Knight Rises, Hugh…