If you take a picture of someone in public and post it to mock them, and they aren’t being racist or sexist or committing a crime that hurts someone, you’re an asshole.

I finished the sweater I started working on in the spring, then had to take a break because of the heat. It’s not done done, I still have to weave in all the ends, but it’s so goofy, I love it!

I just wanted to say thank you SO, so much to everyone who read and responded to my post last week. It means to much to hear from you all, and to have somewhere to talk about and get some perspective on my crazy mess.

Quick update: I did make another PP appointment and kept it this time. I thought a lot about what…

I call my kitties my xanax. First thing i do when I get home from anywhere is pick each one up and smoooosh them. One likes it, the other one not so much....

LOVE your kitties!

Have you thought about switching meds? Mine stopped working after a long time (about 15 years) and I had to try several combos before finding the one that works.

Your babies are bootiful! I have long considered my Yonny better medicine than any SSRI you care to name (and I’ve taken lots). Please come hang out at GT, it’s a lovely space. 

Not stupid at all! I forgot to give directions :)

Hey Kaltes, I can relate. I often feel like I’m disappointing my therapist. Of course when I tell him that he assures me that I’m not. Because it’s not about him. And we figure out where that feeling is coming from, what it really means. I hope you’ll let your therapist know you you’re thinking this. Maybe your meds…

Hi, fellow German *waves*

Your friend sounds like he needed any lame excuse to distance himself from you, because refusing to make dates makes no sense whatsoever and quite frankly is something I’d call ghosting.
That’s his problem, not yours, he is doing this, because he can’t talk about what his problem is. Were you…

Regardless of the validity of your emotional needs towards your man friend, it sounds like expanding your support network would be a good idea.

Done; good luck!

You cannot fail your therapist; depression is beyond your control, so don’t blame yourself.

Have you sought medical/therapy treatment? Sometimes depression is situational, and clears up after a few weeks, but the fact that it’s come back is of concern.

I always read the greys always.... so know someone is here for you....

this is why i paid extra for the 8+ and portrait mode

My one cat loves my boyfriend’s drag stuff. She loves the drag closet and the makeup table and brushes. She just stands on the chair looking into the mirror like an old diva. Her name is Tenar (from Ursula Le Guins Tombs of Atuan) but when she’s being a fashion kitty we call her by her drag name Tenar Braxton.

Great! I wholeheartedly agree with the sentiment expressed in this video. It is absolutely time that the voice people hear and the face people see when discussing feminism belong to women of color.

It seems like so many men think that if they don’t have a burning, all-consuming hatred for women in the forefront of their conscious brains, that this automatically means that they respect women. Like, if they don’t actually think the words “what a fucking cunt” they are okay.

Happy three months, Catalina!