Early 80s to Early 2000s. Possibly as young as 10, possibly as old as 34. On the edges, I think it will depend more on which traits associated with the generations fit the personality of the individual (probably related to spending more time with older or younger individuals gwoing up). I know someone who's 30 and…

"If I tell people, and invite them, and plan it far enough in advance, we might have drinks or dinner sometime near the date. But otherwise, it's just a random day. "

My mom died after fighting breast cancer for 13 years. My dad was miserable until he was in a relationship again. I think something about needing to care for someone else on that level changes some people inside. He couldn't find happiness being on his own, and he wasn't willing to live with a woman unless they…

Fantastic article...but I'm a little disappointed in *this* site making light of the gulags. I'd expect from other media sources, but Jezebel knows better.

I'll have that happen sometimes. For me it's not an orgasm though. No contractions happening. It's a very different experience for me when I have an orgasm where all my girl parts go all crazy-town contracting and grabbing whatever's there. Those are the times that make me keep coming back to sex. My boyfriend…

I have that sometimes too. I also have a really hard time seeing pictures in my head which makes fantasy difficult. I tend to imagine someone standing behind me whispering dirty things in my ear and telling me what to do. Something about thinking I'm doing it for someone else takes the pressure off myself for some…

My first O was after years of sex and came from a detachable shower head. It's still my best bet at getting off whereas various vibes haven't been as failsafe :)

My mom was also raised in an abusive household and her story was similar to your friend's. He got older, started a new family, became the perfect picture of a dad and grandfather, and it took my mom getting terminal cancer before she could reconcile all of it. I never even met him until high school. When he passed…

I don't see this article as asking you to settle for less at all. If you know you're capable of an orgasm, please demand it! You deserve nothing less! On the other hand, not every woman *can* orgasm every time like you can. I can't, even in private. I can usually ring my own bell after 10-15 minutes of work. But…

Interesting. No one in my circle of friends and coworkers has seen any marketing for it.

I'm not surprised a movie with a non-white cast did well...I'm surprised a movie that I've not seen an iota of marketing for beat heavily marketed Thor. I'm going to go with "Hey Hollywood! Here's more proof that there's a huge need for more diversity in film and tv show casts! Can you get on that please and thank…

Hah! That would be the Baltimore area, wouldn't it. I like that the station plays a lot of the softer stuff that I don't hear on other Top-40 stations (like sarah barilles) but agree the tag line is terrible!

That would be interesting. Reading (oh fine...alright...skimming) the article, it seems like men are turning everything into a competition in their minds, so someone else's success is turning them into a failure. It seems like the research says women are less likely to do this.

Can you recommend some other blogs to follow that do a good job representing WOC?