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I watched Buffy as a teen and swooned over Angel. I rewatched it in my late twenties and was mad for Riley. He’s the perfect man.

I actually feel sympathy for Kim. The reason she had her other babies through surrogates was because of placenta accretia and pre-eclampsia. She had to have the baby in question - the one Kanye is ranting about ‘nearly killing’ - delivered 6 weeks early because her life was in danger.

“He gave me his blessing and I totally gave myself to that relationship for years of my life and I truly and really, really deeply loved and have a ton of love for her. I devoted myself to it. I gave my full self to it so much so to the point that I can die right now and be ok with knowing that I truly gave myself to

It’s a toughie. I didn’t want any kids in my 20s, but then, I never dated the right (ie. stable) person. Come my 30s, I’ve mellowed out, some of my friends and relatives have had kids, and I’m starting to regret that I didn’t get the right accoutrements and accomplishments to make me ready for a family now. I have a

“How would you like to go to Milan?” my (ex) boyfriend asks. Well who wouldn’t? Apparently his friend, who’s a model, and her sister are going to be there. One of them is living there, so they can show us around.

She’s not a real doctor :(

Yeah, she reminds me of me when I had an unhealthy obsession with exercise. I *had* to exercise every day, even though I wasn’t enjoying it. And the way she’s cycling at a manic speed and filming herself all the freaking time makes her look even more unhinged...

So what if they have or do not have Facebook accounts? Even if they deleted them right now, much of the world will still have Facebook accounts. They are asking what Zuckerberg is doing to stop his platform being used as an aggregator for hate speech and violence. 

My 33-year old (old millennial, right?) American boyfriend didn’t know what muesli was. Should I be worried?

The way he writes about her and other conquests in his memoir is just so belittling and cringeworthy. He makes them his manic pixie dream girls, oh I was just an average-guy lost soul beleaguered by the anxieties of life and here is this beautiful ineffable female movie star somehow kissing me underneath centuries-old

Sometimes I cry when I lie down to sleep at night. I think I’m coping, then when I get horizontal it just comes out of nowhere, bam!

I’m an editor and I once volunteered to read my friend’s unpublished book. It was DIRE. Every character set up as a strawman instigating the main character into some act of horrible but forgivable violence, teen boy dialogue slathered with exclamation marks, and the most horrible sex scene I have ever read. He used

His face pinked with fury: “Wait a minute, I’m going to call up William Shakespeare and ask why Romeo and Juliet had to die!”

I hear ya. I actually grew up in surroundings like that. Though our house was small and horrible, the grounds were big. My bickering parents were codependent and one of them probably was a hoarder. Our strange property covered in eccentric junk and furniture was the dirty secret of the neighbourhood. We were the

My boyfriend chews with his mouth open. It’s very noisy and when it’s just the two of us, it seems to blossom to fill my whole aural world. At first I thought it was funny - haha, he chews just like my older (from another culture) relatives! Now we’re through the cutesy phase, I really, really, really, really, really,

I still want a cute, optimistic, adventurous, artist boyfriend. Instead of all the other ones I got.

“I want no one, male or female, to have to experience the destructive consequences of making decisions while under the influence of alcohol.”