I wouldn’t give up my Cayman for the Corvette, but in two years, when the first wave of lease returns start becoming available? Hmmm. I could always add one then if I wanted to be totally self-indulgent.

I own a Cayman 981 and would consider this car. It’s beautiful. 

And for god’s sake don’t blow in the mic to see it it’s on. Nothing screams goob quite like that. 

He’s absolutely a raging text book narcissist. I have read TONS of articles on narcissism after dating one briefly last summer. Knowing how out-of-touch she was with reality and her skills at playing victim, lashing out and projecting, I can only IMAGINE what it’s like dealing with Trump.

Like the other guy said “Not always the case.” I’ve always been thin. Since I was 21, I’ve been 165# 6'3" I’m still that way and I just turned 53. I have never been able to put on weight. Everything I eat just gets burned off.

I’m with you. If I get sad thinking about my mom who died in March, I just think back to the lifetime of abuse I endured. It makes me feel less guilty when I throw things away as I clean out her house. I don’t feel anger towards her. Not sure it’s really a grudge. Maybe just a reminder.

I’m 53 and stopped seeking out new music when I was probably 35. (I stopped listening to the radio, because I couldn’t take all the talking and commercials.) Then when I was 45, the wife and I split and I used modern music as a way to connect better with my teenage daughters. I caught up to what they listened to and…

Very true. Alcohol can be a huge orgasm killer. I started noticing it when I hit 50.

It would have been really helpful if the lawyers who prepared the will had provided a checklist. They weren’t much help... probably wanted me to hire them to settle the estate. At least the clerks at the courthouse are helpful, but there still a lot of phone calls, emails and running around.  Just make sure to get…

I’m dealing with this for the first time, and I tell ya, kids, it’s a lot of work. More than I imagined. And I have it easy since I am sole beneficiary and executor. (I was the last person willing to deal with my mom’s BS, but that’s another story.) I’m sure Anderson is having lawyers do all the leg work, but there is…

I dated a woman last summer (56) who has had many procedures.... probably more than she admitted to. She casually mentioned once that she and her daughter (23) wanted to get nose jobs so their selfies would look better. The two of them were *addicted* to taking photos of themselves.

..... and Trump would play the narcissist victim card for the rest of his days.

In that case, come buy my house! My home is 20-years old and the kitchen cabinets are the honey oak that were popular back then. I don’t think they are every coming back. Structurally, they are in great shape, but if I don’t reface or refinish them before I sell, I’ll take a big hit for sure. Same thing for not having…

Similar philosophy as mine. My credit card is from the same bank that holds my mortgage. Instead of getting the cash back, it’s applied to the principle of my mortgage. Hundreds of dollars have come off and it’s money I don’t have to pay interest on. I put *everything* on my card and pay it off at the end of the…

The trainers at my gym say I need a lot of calories to reach my fitness goals. I’ve never been a big eater and seem to burn off the calories as fast as I put them in. I need more to build some lean muscle. 

I work 7:30 - 4:30. I have a protein shake at 6:30 while I am cooking a 3 egg omelette that I eat when I get to work. Have lunch outside at 1 pm and when I get back at 2, there’s only 2.5 hours left in the day. Always have a box of energy bars in my desk.

Yes, you are absolutely correct. That happens. In my experience, you need a little time and space for things to settle out and transition from a dating thing to a friend thing. Be that as it may, there are plenty of times when it’s one person who still pines and hovers around for another chance.

Of course it can go both ways, but from what I have witnessed — After a woman decides she doesn’t want to date a guy any more, a beta orbiter is the one who continues to hang around her orbit, hoping for another chance. The guy may portray it was “yeah, we’re friends now,” but in reality, he’s hoping for another…

I believe that is called Beta Orbiting.

Never burn your bridges!