Reminder: most states have safe haven laws. If, for whatever reason, you are panicked about needing to care for a baby or feel the need to hide that you had a baby, please drop the child off at a hospital, police station, or fire station. It will be cared for.

That's not true. I've iced people out of my life before. I just disappear, unfriend them, and block their numbers/emails. If I don't want you in my life, then you're not going to be in it.

The problem with that is, we can't change other people. We can only change how we treat them or how much we choose to engage with them. So when someone has a friend problem that amounts to "how can I change this person" what other advice is there?

I do. Not dramatically, but I do a quiet fade. My life is pretty uncomplicated now. Worth it.

Well, people are entitled to their opinions—and also a benefit of the doubt about intended tone (sometimes it's hard to tell in a comment)! I think this is an example of fair criticism and it deserves a response. I also think there's nothing wrong with people having different opinions on things. It doesn't always have…

I have to say, you have a great way of responding to negative comments (though in this case, I get where it is coming from)! Random, but I've noticed it more recently and thought you do really well with it!

I'm glad someone brought this up, but I have point out, she has referred to herself as the "Burger King Baby." I disagree that it is "tasteless." I think I would be proud to be the "Burger King Baby" if my life turned out this way, especially with such a spectacular ending. Thank you for your comment!

Nothing says grandma like pastel slacks and a matching jacket.

It's those coral slacks! Nothing says grandma like pastel slacks and a matching jacket.

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If my breasts looked like that I would never put a shirt on.

I served him once when I used to work at Starbucks. The man has no inside voice. He is all news broadcaster all the time. It was awesome.

The real test of the legitimacy of this is to flip it backwards logically. I come from a long line of French Canadian Mennonites and I have a family tree traced back to the 1500s on one side (thank you, bibles!) and to the early 1800s on the other. I'm reasonably certain none of my direct ancestors owned slaves…

Sorry, it is bullshit that the descendant of a slave owner has some special requirement for apologizing for slavery. It is double bullshit when that person is a celebrity. It's triple bullshit when you have living plutocrats actively oppressing living people, right fucking now.

Here's a vital conversation to have: where should we draw the line at doing asshole things because those asshole things "create a conversation"?

Oh this is fun! What would other gawker sites waste $10,000 on for things we already know?

"This is about Vogue, and what Vogue decides to do with a specific woman who has very publicly stated that she's fine just the way she is, and the world needs to get on board with that. Just how resistant is Vogue to that idea?"

I feel like there's such a lack of empathy it's turned into dehumanization of the person on the other side of the phone line/customer service desk/cash register.

Things Lana Del Rey is: