No actually, it wasn't - the click-bait headline referring to Micro Dick is LATER explained in the post but it's still a shitty post. My point stands - there wouldn't be a post defending the virtues of a woman with small tits the way this post goes into defense of men who may/may not have a small penis. The term…

So - imagine if this post was written about a woman who had small tits.

K - wow, that's a lot to ask of someone. I personally just want someone to see ME - but ok - you do you.

I didn't miss a point - I just had a different one.

Being a decent fucking human being matters more than the color of your skin or the struggle of your ancestors. That to me is being race-blind. Everyone seems to work really fucking hard to remind people of the struggle that they themselves didn't go through - but their ancestors did - how about we all just figure…

We are most certainly not supposed to be? By what decree?

Really? We aren't supposed to be colorblind to race?? Who is "we" and where did that rule come from? Also - you have no fucking clue what color I am.

Post-racist to me means just normal human being shit. I'm sorry if it bothers you that I don't see someone as black/brown/whatever. I just want to see people. Your stuff is on you - but you can't have it both ways - you'd complain if someone pointed out the blackness as well. It's damned if you do/damned if you…

So then - let's stop complaining that an entertainer has an opinion. That was my point. Those people are just as entitled to their opinions as the rest of us are - we're just not ever asked about them by a magazine.

Whoa - this wasn't about me or even you - but it's good to know that this is the level of defensiveness we can all face in "post-racial" society.

He doesn't owe you shit. He has his own opinion. THAT was my point - and I didn't miss the point of the post. Sorry, I guess, that he doesn't satisfy your viewpoint - he has his own. My point was that he's entitled to it - right or wrong - as much as any other citizen is.

Honestly - earnestly - asking this - if we're supposed to be blind to race, why does this matter at all? He's trying his best to defy a racial stereotype and still gets blasted for it?

Not sure how you gathered it was diverse age-wise, but ok.

You are spot on.

I could give a shit about anyone's solidarity - this was a bullshit post, and that's what I commented on...the bullshittery of it. GOP - how in the hell did you manage to work your way 'round to a political conversation?

Where/when did I say "little people"? I said professional services. By virtue of your logic, a physician is a "little person" because I look to them to provide a service to me that I'm not proficient in providing for myself.

Please tell me how that is classist. If you feel you need to know how to do something - then you should learn how to do that thing. If you do the analysis breakdown and figure out that there is something you don't need to master because you have access to a service that does master in it, then take advantage of it.

Meh - I avoid 95% percent of the Mommy Wars shit just by not visiting Mommy Blogs. Girlfriend venting is one thing - but blogs have unleashed a whole new concept of sharing. Everyone now feels the need to share (and monetize!) their contempt of their chosen lot in life by virtue of online diaries.

This isn't "clothing care" as much as it is "clothing maintenance". However, I think most people are clueless about both. Care (to me only, perhaps) means just general "how do I not fuck up this cashmere sweater" or "what's up with these pit stains and how can they be removed". Darning socks (no one does that, like…

My attitude towards SATC/Carrie was the same then that a lot of people now have about Girls/Lena Dunham. I hate the fact that she was held up as a representative of "us" at the time.