I don’t understand what this guy is trying to prove here. I came into this say “Me too! This post is exactly me!” and his “help” is to tell me I’m wrong. He’s trying to explain my own marriage to me, having met neither myself or my husband or having any idea what he’s talking about.  

In fact, most people would say trying to take action to solve all of your partner’s desires is probably unhealthy. What if she wanted to go to Paris weekly? Should he kill himself for that.

This concept of finding the lowest acceptable level of comfort puts the onus entirely on Fairboxie to compromise. In your effort to find a common ground, you over-correct and go entirely to the other side.

Or, you know, not wanting to live in squalor.

My SO tried to claim that he was shouldering fully half of all of the chores, so I said, “If that’s the case, let’s trade. If they are truly split equally, you shouldn’t care either way”. Easiest argument I ever won.

Nah man. Women are systematically oppressed, raped, beaten, and murdered by men. But by all means, let’s pretend that this is about the poor mens having their rights violated. You’re probably the same kind of fucking idiot so incapable of nuanced thought that you also think there’s such a thing as “reverse racism.”

You aren’t required to like it.

Ok- so basically you are anti abortion. Just own it- you want to punish people for making decisions you do not agree with. Just be real about it.

An abortion is an abortion. If you think they can be used in cases of rape and incest then you are okay with abortion full stop. The only reason to stop there is to “punish those dumb sluts.” Ammirite?

Did you ever consider it was none of your business?

I’m willing to bet money you’ve had at least one pregnancy scare in your life that just happened to turn out alright.

All fucking is sport fucking, you dork — unless you’re Mike Pence apparently, when it’s done in the dark of night with multiple cardigans protecting you from any actual skin contact..

So fucking dumb to insist that “irresponsible” people should be forced to gestate an unwanted pregnancy against their will. Forcing them to do that won’t all-of-the-sudden make them Upstanding Citizens Who Will Never Mess Up On Anything again.

Why should you get to decide when someone is “allowed” to get an abortion?

boy i sure hope you’ve already adequately wrapped your tool everytime you and your wife fucked. yes notice i said wife because fucking out of wedlock is irresponsible, per you. i hope you waited til marriage, friendo. cuz otherwise you’re a big old hypocrite.

I so agree - you know it’s always the women demanding sex in any relationship. plus women are paid more at their jobs than men, and it’s always those poor men who are responsible for buying those expensive birth control pills and remembering to take them. And men usually get stuck with the breast feeding and raising…

Came here expecting a comment from someone who wants a means test before people can f*ck, did not leave disappointed.

Yes! I just reread it and also gave it to a young woman who lives with us. She voted for Trump and was in tears after reading it. Good. I’m glad it scared the shit out of her.

All of these exist with the sole purpose of being featured in instagram photoshoots.