I'm not sure why you are arguing with me. Nothing in what I originally said says that you shouldn't have sex with someone who has given affirmative consent. It's just a simple rule someone should follow if they have trouble with knowing what constitutes affirmative consent—which is not really as hard to get as…

No, really, it is that easy. You make sure the person you are having sex with is not so altered that they can't clearly understand what is going on (and this goes for women, too), and then you ask them. You don't weasel out by claiming "but consent is sooooo HARD!" If you are grown up enough to be having sex, you are…

So why did you even bring it up? I still think it's not a good idea to have sex in either instance—do you really want to be having sex with someone who is only having sex with you because she is drunk? Just having as much sex as possible is so important that it doesn't matter that she is going to think of it as…

When I stated the first condition, I meant someone who was in a LTR or married (because I've literally seen supposed female commentators say something as stupid as "you mean that every time my husband and I have sex when I'm drunk it's rape? Lol!"), I didn't mean someone you fucked casually once two weeks ago. But,…

Seriously, if you are this confused about what constitutes consent, maybe you should just not ever have sex. Methinks you protest WAY too much.

If you are so worried about being accused of rape, maybe you shouldn't have sex with anyone who is altered in any way—drinking or using drugs. Really, consent isn't as hard as you are making it out to be. You can just ask, you know.

Abby is right—that's just relaxation/peeing. I worked on an Arabian horse breeding farm for a few years, even assisted with semen collection. Besides having a gelding of my own for many years.

I'm guessing this guy in particular wouldn't be satisfied with rape role play, because I get the feeling what's getting him off is fear. It's very difficult to fake fear convincingly. I think he gets off on the violence and the real fear the women feel when he is raping them.

I think she was talking about the woman who writes the Dear Prudie column, and that was *maybe* a year ago. And, yes, she was very victim-blamey. Basically, she told her daughter that if she ever drank at all, she would probably get raped. Implying it was her daughters responsibility to make sure that didn't happen. I…

The only test you need to determine whether or not you should have sex with someone who is drunk or has been drinking, is to ask yourself if that person would have or has had sex with you while stone cold sober. If the answer is yes, and they seem willing, go for it. If the answer is no, or you don't know, then you…

Thank goodness the police can do something right and catch that psychopath. Here's to hoping he is beaten to death in prison before he has a chance to get out on bail.

I always wondered what would happen if a clinic defense person carried a video camera with them and got all up in the terrorists faces while they were screaming their obscenities and made it clear they were being recorded. And did this on a regular basis, recording their license plates and such. Basically, doing the…

I guess I would start keeping a diary of things she said on the date she said them, and then try to stay as far away from her as possible. Who knows what she is capable of if she decides to take a dislike to you.

She's a nurse and she got her kids taken from her? Holy crap! I'm speechless.

Yeah, me too. My crazy mother can be very charming when she wants to be.

I want to thank you. I think I finally have a word to describe my mother. Well, among other things. My father divorced her when I was very young, and went on to marry again— my stepmother and I have a great relationship. I grew up subjected to her mental illness, and finally in my late 20s cut off all contact with her…

there are women who can have vaginal orgasms, but it usually takes some sustained rhythm. Don't do this to your partners, it sucks.

Ticket takers and concessions workers aren't employed by the teams, they are employed by the stadiums they play in. Teams = players, managers, etc. people directly employed by the teams.

Obvious troll is obvious.

You haven't provided anything that isn't pure opinion or anecdote—there is nothing to refute. You have provided no facts. You haven't even provided legitimate opinion, just what you and a couple of your friends think. So, my opinions and those of my friends are just as true and applicable. And yes —men aren't…