This was also my dream. Provided he wasn't doing so much cocaine as he used to.

Oh my gosh there really is a subreddit for everything.

Any Jezzies unlucky enough to have a mother with narcissistic personality disorder who can give me some advice? Specifically around planning a wedding around said disorder?

She's a total babe.

The sad thing is, this is the sort of crap Anonymous used to pull all the time, before they grew (a bit) of a conscience. If I remember correctly, it's how LulzSec was born, because they got tired of Anonymous using their hacking skills for "good".

YES. My fiance and I don't work in the same field, but he was butthurt for a long time when I got a new job that meant I was getting paid considerably more. He was rude to me for weeks about it, but he wouldn't admit it was bothering him. It even prompted him to ask for a raise. Which he got. The gap in our pay is…

I want to say socialized? I don't know enough about the human brain or society to say either way, but there's definitely a difference in expectations in men and women and how they react to people's feelings about them. I personally would prefer to give no fucks. I would save a lot of time and energy if I gave no fucks…

For sure, that's his attitude too. It's hard to shake the urge to have people like me though. I feel it deep in my bones and I hate it.

Maybe? He's not an unexcitable person. He does get enthused about stuff. Just not my achievements. Not to the same extent I do about his anyway.

For sure. I felt personally offended and upset that my fiance's mum didn't like me. Fiance was disliked my my mother and he gave no fucks. Not a single one. He doesn't give a fuck that she likes him now even though he makes no effort, while I'm 100% on my best behavior all the time always with his parents. Because…

This totally applies to positive stuff too. Anecdata time! When my fiance does well (gets a pay rise, gets put on an important project) I shriek with joy and hug him and congratulate him and feel like I've achieved something too. When something goes well for me? "Aww that's great sweetie" and I get a hug, and we never…

Haha, sorry! It's just a fact of life in my house. Everything is peppered in cat hair.

Aaahhhh yep. She's got some warped perceptions, that's for sure. It's great that she's so outspoken about her story and LGBT rights, but she's no Laverne Cox.

Co-signed. I started following her after watching RuPaul's Drag Race, and ended up unfollowing. She's got a lot of not great personality traits, but don't you dare try to call her out on it. Her fans are rabid, and sometimes she'll attack you personally if she really disagrees with you.

Dammit, these women are more fabulous than I'll ever be. :(

"Just sayin'" is one of the worst, most passive aggressive phrases in the English language and should go die in a fire. Just sayin'. Also, I can believe it's super difficult for the family to believe this shit, but could we at least go five minutes without trotting out the "nuts or sluts" defense?

Oh my god, Jesus Christ, why does female success have to be framed as "at the expense of men"? THERE'S ROOM AT THE TOP FOR MORE THAN JUST WHITE DUDES.

There's definitely smug territory when when your lifestyle doesn't match the norm. Like if you dare to not want children or marriage or something else along those lines, people immediately puff up to fill your head with their wisdom and teach you the error of your ways. Like you interpreted "love" or "family" in a way…

I swing between OMG BABIES and UGH NO BABIES. All I know is it's not in my immediate future and my husband to be is totally cool with that.