The fact that you’re “flummoxed” that some of us are (rightly) concerned that you are conflating sexualization with infantilization is weirding me out.

Lol yeah I’ll bet he’d be devastated...for being called the eff put on being gross.

While it’s true that the older you get, the younger others seem (anyone under 35 is a child to me, and I’m only 52), I don’t think it’s ok to touch kids that way either.

Slapping asses, grabbing at stomachs bc that’s what he did back in his day? That’s not babysitting. That’s not a pat on the head. At all. It’s also not how anyone should treat a child

Slapping your adult children on the ass and grabbing their bellies is a natural part of aging? My parents are in their 80's, and many of my clients are elderly. None of them touch me inappropriately or say creepy shit to me. They may joke around and call em “Kid” but they keep their hands to themselves

You are so, so wrong on this. Full stop.

Length is such a weird myth. Everyone wants a super long cock, but if you don’t know how to wield a super long cock, it is no fun for the person you are having sex with.

My SIL publicly yelled at my FIL to stop demanding hugs and kisses from her daughter and FIL nearly collapsed in shock. (He doesn’t touch my kid that way because my kid is a boy and male bodies are respected but female bodies are public property.)

FIL just sputtered, “oh? OH? THAT’S BAD? Well, maybe I will never kiss…

LW1: Absolutely this is sexualization. And your father is an asshole for not supporting you.

People need to stop tip toeing around family members who are being assholes.

How about someone punch him in the dick?

I agree, he needed someone to be all about him and she fulfilled that. She was a brazen opportunist but she held up her part of the bargain. It reminds me of something my sister told me: “There are two ways to get money. You can earn it or you can marry it. And if you marry it, you’re going to earn it.”

That isn’t accurate. The Dutch invented it. Two black NY police officers turned it into a formal league some time back in the 70s. And of course girls of color made it their own and turned it into the incredibly awesome athletic/dance sport that it is.

After being molested by my stepfather over a two year period and the eventual trial and conviction that happened at the end of the ‘80s once it was revealed what was happening I spent a good deal of time at the Barbara Sinatra Children’s Center until we eventually moved out of the Palm Springs area. Even at that…

i humbly submit thatthis: 88. Twenty One Pilots, Blurryface, be replaced with this:

Having the amazing Nat King Cole play at their wedding sounds awesome.

Using “What about the menz?” as a legal argument. Fantastic.

Yeah, that’s what people say.

I met her many years ago when she was receiving an award from my university and I had to interview her for the paper. She had a diamond ring that was roughly the size of an emu’s egg and a bodyguard that looked straight out of a Dick Tracy comic. At one point, I was scribbling furiously on my notepad and the cap of my…

Damn.