Best case scenario if I get hacked. imillerand@aol.com. I know. AOL. I’m not a total dinosaur. I just don’t like being annoyed with emails on my phone. It’s the easiest account to change if I need to. I’d welcome hearing from you, if you’d like.

Yeah, Anthony Bourdain totally wrecked me, too. Suicide wrecks me in general.

Please speak up any time you need to. There are people who think you’re just grand who are listening. We don’t want to lose you!

I second this wholeheartedly!

It’s not silly in the slightest. You’ve had a LOT going on since I’ve “known” you.

Seriously, is there any private account where you can get in touch with me or vice versa? I only know you from Jezebel, but you are a lovely person.

Bless you.

I love your “pitch in” attitude. We all do need each other to stick around. You’re a good hoomin.

I’m so sorry about your loss and that you’re feeling that no one would remember you for more than a couple of days. I’m sure that’s not true. And, while I’m not a huge Jackson Browne fan, he wrote a lyric in “For A Dancer” that stays with me. “There might be a reason you were alive that you’ll never know.”

You’re good and kind. Always remember that there are people in your life whose lives would be less good if you were no longer here. I’m here, if I could figure a way to get in touch without divulging my cell or email on the entire Internet. But regardless, I’m here.

My early love of stilettos resulted in four foot surgeries. Nothing higher than a 1" block heel or wedge for me!

Also alcohol and yes, heroin.

I have a really bad feeling about this. Pete Davidson is a rather troubled person, and it appears that he has recently become un-drug-free. He dates Ariana Grande for two weeks, gets tattoos for her, and now they’re engaged? I really like Pete, but I don’t see this ending well, and I’ve a feeling SNL is going to drop…

Of course, it’s probably entirely coincidental that one of President Obama’s achievements was saving the auto industry.

Are we living the South Park movie now?

On a thick, voluptuous, old-timey vellum note card.

Once we’d decided on a range of breeds, PetFinder was an invaluable resource. I love PetFinder.

You can google the ten most mellow dog breeds, etc., to help you narrow down your search.

My husband, who is a recently retired NYC prosecutor, got in touch with Bourdain through his publisher, and asked him if he’d like to come to a weekly Friday lunch at Forlini’s (the courthouse’s favorite restaurant — we got married there) with a bunch of prosecutors, detectives, judges, etc. over great…

When you’re walking on eggshells and have suffered negative personality consequences from your relationship, that’s a big red flag that it’s time to leave. Been there, done that. Your life will be much better for it. Wishing you the very best of luck.