All people should have access to nonjudgmental healthcare. But it’s a little naive to act like the world isn’t fair to you when you are a pregnant man. Yes, you have additional challenges. Yes, you do have to keep coming out. Because you are a man and you chose to become pregnant. It’s great that this guy has a good…

These two situations are in no way similar. A battle with cancer and the time you get during the battle to come to grips, plus three years. Or, my wife just died one day less than a year and a half ago and now I’m getting married again.

This makes so much sense.

I was in my mid 20s before I ever had a “street taco.” It was a revelation. I refuse to eat any sort of Americanized version ever again. Keep your sad wad of iceberg and flavorless shredded cheddar. I do wish tomatoes were standard but I wish that for most foods.

Mustard! I don’t know what side that’s on. I did go to a 99% white memorial on Monday and there were three potato salads. White, yellow, and holy crap that not roasted potatoes that’s vinegar potato salad.

Yeah the only time I have referred to my hair as natural was in the 80s and 90s and I was clarifying that it wasn’t a perm. “Natural” is my default, accepted, state. In my lifetime, that has mostly not been the case for black women I have seen in my life or on tv. I think Sondra Cosby and Freddie from A Different…

Epilepsy.

There is only a five year age difference between me and my sister but she got her sex ed in 1998 and ho-ly-sh-iiiit. I had to sit her down when she was 17 and yell at her about STIs and condom use, yes even for a goddamned blow job.

Entourage fans? Scott Caan is the poor man’s Michael Deluise.

I will sit with you at the dinner party. The song is fine. I was half checked out after the full minute of “I wish I was dead” before there was even any music. And when the music started, it’s very literal. I’m glad that this was obviously so cathartic for her but I didn’t finish the video and it doesn’t make me want…

Fuck Amtrak. The last time I tried to get a train ticket I was also calling airlines. When I called back for the train ticket the price had gone up by $100. An hour later. Not for a fancy car, just for a seat. Greyhound might be slow and kinda gross but you are paying for slow and kinda gross. Train prices are…

No, guys in skirts in college are usually cis and straight and are 100% going to be taking feminist theory classes, arguing like dingbats during those classes, and claiming polyamory so they can use their feminist cred to get laid more. They outgrow it. The skirt parts anyway.

Omg. I was thinking it was Cyril but it could easily be Cheryl too. God what a terrible name.

My mother is full blown orthorexic and I hated eating out with her. First, there was the looooong conversation/monologue with the server about alllllllllll of her “allergies.” A list of like 30 things. Then every single thing on the menu had to be checked in the kitchen to make sure they weren’t going to sneak any…

Secret menus should just all be abolished. I went to In N Out once. I didn’t get why there was a line around the block (new store) and why people raved about it. The posted menu seemed just like any other basic burger joint. Then I saw people with all this good looking stuff. Cheese fries! I freaking love cheese…

There was a nicer restaurant I used to treat myself to every couple of months. I always, always ordered the trout. It was amazing and I’m not a fish person. My fourth or so visit the chef/owner brought my plate out and asked me very nicely to please try the skin this time. I was blushing from pleasure (she remembers…

Yesssss!

So, you don’t know the difference between climate and weather. Boy, those creationist/climate change denying science classes did a good job! You are ignorant as fuck.

Lol. Alabama scientist. That’s a good one.

We spent the day driving back from a memorial that was held in the deep country near the very north part of the California/Nevada border. We camped outside last night on a working farm. Horse manure can be a very comforting scent. We had to drive an hour and a half before we even had cell service again. We smoked and…