Literally 3 seconds after I shared it, the post was deleted.

True story: I met Jane Berkin at an after party for one of Charlotte Gainsbourg's concerts and she looked like a typical, normal grandma. She was pretty, of course, but she had on mom jeans and a fleece and looked just really chill and normal. Also super nice. I definitely did NOT expect that, but I was really happy…

Woohoo! I'm writing you from Detroit! :( about the "crust punk" part...

Hell yeah! I did this with a bunch of my girlfriends over wine a few weeks ago and then we burned the lists in a bon fire (I don't really remember why but it was hilarious and we were shitfaced). It was just a great time, highly recommended. Some name highlights included "Zach Something," "Guy Outside of Drink," and…

Hahaha, oh man, I mean it's truly funny when you look back at really odd things like that because at the time you are like, wtf? but then brush it off. And it's easy to excuse that just as like, oh he bought something special for me and is proud of it or something? You do get totally sucked in because it's supposed to…

I'm really sorry to hear that. I honestly would see out the help of a therapist for yourself - I needed to see one for helping with my recovery from what I experienced and also to help me understand what is NOT my fault. I also think that you taking care of yourself and putting up boundaries with your father would be…

Wow - I honestly can say that I relate 100% to what you're saying. I'm sorry you had to experience it too. You ex sounds exactly like mine. Especially the whole, not know what's "ok" to say when you're upset. That in and of itself shows that the other person was manipulative. Gosh I reflate to that so much. Props to…

Totally. When I met my ex I was just starting to get my life back after a long bout of depression, a messed up job situation and a very short (but shitty) relationship. I never thought I'd be a victim, but I have always been a people pleaser and he seemed so perfect at first. The levels of manipulation are truly…

Oh man, can I relate. Mine was a significant other, which was very painful, but once I learned about this disorder things became so much clearer and I was glad that I wasn't crazy. I, too, literally read so so much about the topic - it was fascinating. I Thankfully haven't come across any other NPD's yet, but I know…

She did! Her Berkin bags were taken because she had no other money and then were determined to be fake.

Taylor was totally hammered and I really love how her own craziness starts to come out "Honey, I'm a lot older than you with WAY more money"

Me too. Never knew what it was until I was out of the situation. I did know, that I was confused as fuck a lot of the time.

You're not alone! ((hugs)) to you too, friend.

Oh man, that is rough and I really feel for you. ((hugs))

I recently called off my very serious engagement (it was a year ago on Christmas Day..not loving this time of year to say the least) and when I did I felt like the biggest failure. It was, and still kind of is, awful. BUT! I was surprised to find out a lot of other people also had that experience. People I had no idea…

I saw it too! I had a little wine buzz and I am also a stoner so this just made me very happy.

This will probably never be seen because I'm posting kind of late learning about this Kinja business - I'm a newbie! - but Nigella's story resonates with me so much (minus the millions of dollars and fame).