Parents who make it seem like there is a grave opportunity cost to enjoying small things for themselves are insufferable.

Oh, that's too bad.

What I'm getting at is that plenty of husbands of wives probably do find their wives sexy in these various states of being mother (okay, maybe not the lactating one unless that's your kink) - a lampoon only works if there's some truth to it.

It's hard to fight seeing your significant other in pervasive sexy light, yes.

Please, don't judge other cultures.

Only if you're white I guess. Cultural differences and all.

The forecast for your life for the next 40-50 years: Constant disappointment (or is the constant disappointing confirmation). Either way, Enjoy!

Depends on how much of a 1950s mafioso I feel like pretending to be ;)

Well, in the mind of the creators I'm sure they aren't really thinking about this full spectrum - they're really thinking of this from a dude's perspective.

Countdown to Uncle Tom quotes.

Thanks? Wait, who are you? And who is this guy? Does this impact me in any sort of way?

I said as much about advice being too specific to the individual advice giver in another post but if there was a way to easily aggregate opinion that might be slightly more useful. Honestly, advice on how to approach women from other guys ranges from unhelpful to harmful mostly because people who self select to give…

White people use insipid, black people use basic. You might have a future as a comedian Kara.

I got a better word than Basic. Insipid.

Yeah, gay men are the real spectre of POC's cultural identity.

What bait? The way the POC writers for Jez spin it, not only should you be keenly aware of the vernacular of black culture because black culture shouldnt be marginalized, you should keep it out of your pasty white mouth because it's not a culture you'll ever be a part of. I understand POC wanting something esoteric…

I am also glad that some men are thinking that women might be a more informed source than other men. And attacking the notion that women are some monolithic cultural bloc is probably the best outcome of this kind of venue.

It's hard to correct false notions though if theyre asking very specific questions with a specific woman in mind - "How often do you feel randomly aroused and want to act on it?" probably is highly variable but if the question pertains to an SO, it's not helpful to say "oh yeah, women are this that and the other"…

The worst part about this is that the questions really seem to imply women are a uniculture bloc - women are individuals first and foremost.

POC - stop interacting with white people, they'll take anything you enjoy and just ruin it for you.