For me is the over use of the bronzer and tanner that let you know Becky’s bringing her racism.

Oh, I understand. I’ve seen that competitivness and veiled comtempt in some relationships but I never called it love. It’s mostly when the man or woman find someone that fits the image of what they want in a relationship, but dont like or trust the actual person. Being a friend that person is exhausting.

The only tiny issue I see with this is I am not attracted to any of my friends. This works for some of my friends that are kinder already attracked to the friends they have.

Your writing is so soulful and sweet. BUT I think intimacy is built over time. You emtional take off one shoe than a sock, to test the strenght of the other person. It also helps build them up to be strong enough for you. An example: my husband said he wanted someone to tell his secrets to before he died. I was like…

I agree, but more mixed race kids regardless of how they look are considering themselves white. Sage Steel did AT FIRST because she said her father is the only black person she knows and he should be thankful her mom even laid with him (her words). So the new thing is if you dont identify with one half the default is…

Zimmerman’s mom is Mexican.

I dont know if that’s really true. Because everyone I know who fell in love (man/woman/myself included) get all mushy and make EXTRA consessions. When you meet your person there’s no competition - you’re trying to find their favorite organic cafe made in Guatemala so they’re happy.

He’s muxed race ala Zimmerman.- Mexican mom or Sage - white mom. Or the asian guy that was raping black girls - Chinese mom.

He’s mixed race and considers himself white like Zimmerman.

He’s mixed race like Zimmerman who had a Mexican mother.

He’s half Samoan and considers himself white.

He’s HALF Samoan you ass wipe but considers himself white. Just like half asians, half latinos (Zimmerman) and mixed race blacks that can pass. If your name is Chung and you put race as white then do something racist -:you get what you get.

He has breastfeeding nipples. Got milk? I’ll show myself out.

Isnt that because they’re scare to become too dependent on white men, because they know that they’ll be replaced by 45 tops. The only thing white men hate more than black people is an older fat white lady.

This comment section is dropping truth bombs. THIS IS WHAT BLACK WOMEN go thru. Before the baby #1 would be micro agressively snipping at about their hair, body etc., and then deflect and not take accountability. The only good thing is knowing that #1's husband is a Trump loving cop who’s cheating on her.

OMG - you’re so right. I have kids and I’ve been getting really disgusted by white moms in nyc. My bestie is white with no kids, but she wants them. Now I have the name for what’s been happening. And these bleeps are vegan too, which seems to be a cover for an eating disorder.

In every Hollywood racist baiting movie the black always forgives the evil whites at the end. The lord blah, blah, blah. The new script will be to go touge and said softly without breaking eye contact. I will not sleep until I gut everyone in your immidiate family including your dogs.

Hi. I dont know you except from reading your writing, but I want to say stay vulnable But surrounded by loving people. You sound highly sensative (which is a good thing), but it means you could be attracting toxic emotional vimpires into your circle or they’ve always been there? Get help like you’re doing, BUT also…

I’d rather be married to one hot penis and take his money (that I earned) than random stinky penis. But that’s just me - no judgment

Mark my words. Since this white generation is doing the worst due to prescription pills, meth, oxy and obesity - they’re going to do like their fore fathers and lean heavily on racism and racial bullying instead of competing fair and square.