Your religious superstitions carry no weight or meaning to me. If your faith is so fragile that seeing someone treat your idols with irreverence then you have issues. We don't live in a theocracy. Would he be arrested if this were a stature of Krishna? Plus, there are plenty of pictures of people doing similar…

I wasted 21 years on one...does that make you feel better?

Not saying that there doesn't need to be more of a cultural and legal shift than there has been, but it is changing. The point is—consent can be revoked.

You've never given enthusiastic physical consent when having sex with another person? You've never verbalized it? "Should I get a condom now?", "I really want to fuck you!", "I want to feel your pussy around my cock!"

Actually, a tape of a victim saying yes once won't be a great defense since the consent has to be ONGOING!

I'm starting to feel very sorry and alarmed for any sexual partners you've had. :/

It's not impractical and unfair to ask people to err on the side of not raping another person. If you're not getting enthusiastic consent either verbally or physically then you're more than bad in bed.

Even if she said "no" there have been cases I've read about where a rapist went free because the victim didn't say no strongly or loudly enough, didn't say it the right number of times, didn't fight or fight hard enough, use a weapon, or stopped fighting.

Courts have ruled that it wasn't rape because the victim didn't say no enough times, didn't say it loudly enough, or failed to make it convincing somehow (she was playing hard to get). Or...the courts ruled that the woman gave consent just by being dressed a certain way or going home with a guy. At least this is…

There are ways to communicate consent and still get your kink on.

No amount of slow-compression hinges and similar gadgets can counter the tactics of a passive-aggressive schmuck. Jesus...BE angry, ADMIT you're angry, and fucking work to find a solution!

I vowed never to get personally involved (except maybe calling the cops) after having the woman show up at my door with the guy I helped her escape and both threatened to kill me because it was somehow my fault he ended up in jail. On the night I helped her leave, she was sitting in my car holding her young child and…

And you are just now hearing of slave contracts for the first time?

Yeah, cause this guy was totally respectful to the woman he messaged. Women should just shut up about this stuff, right? If they provide proof they're not respecting some douchenozzle's privacy.

And the conversation if something had happened?—
"Well, you told me the other employees joked about a rape room so why did you keep working there?Why didn't you tell someone? You should have known you were putting yourself in a compromising situation...."

From the news reports it obviously was NOT a dead baby. It was a POSSIBLE fetus...so most likely a bloody mass.

Miscarriages are very common and the authorities shouldn't send out swat, helicopters, and jump to the conclusion that a teenage girl is a murderer and should be hunted down and arrested.

Self-rising cornmeal is hard to find outside of the South.

Yes, and it's obvious just by his hair! /s

My abuser didn't leave until he found someone else. For the last several years I genuinely feared that he'd eventually beat the crap out of me. Several times I feared he would kill me/us in by causing a wreck in the car.