It's that you think your experience is what everyone experiences and are dismissing a common experience of many women who DO get those comments.

He may find someone who meets much of that on the surface, he'll idolize her and then when she shows herself to be human, he'll devalue her and likely treat her like crap for not living up to his fantasy. Of course, I just wasted years of my life being married to a narcissistic psychopath (idolize, devalue,…

No one else in the 80s was being suffocated in their classrooms by 15 pre-teen boys marinated in Polo cologne? I'd rather breathe in the sweat of an entire Polo team and their horses than choke on that cologne.

Well, if you think physical contact means zombies grabbing at your leg rather than being pushed up against a wall and having your neck licked, then there actually IS a lack of true consent. It would be the same with doing a public fetish scene with an agreement for X activity and then Y and Z being included.

The problem is that woman's entire premise that she's doing this because we're all sexually repressed. You can have adult content without the need to include licking someone's neck.

Dresses make those activities more difficult. The fabric can get caught, legs are bare, and then adults are often telling girls to be "lady-like" when they're wearing dresses. Being "lady-like" means NOT doing the things the boys are doing.

I was definitely on the side of "blame the man who took vows with you and not the woman he's cheating on you with" right up until my husband of 20+ years had an affair. I certainly blame him for breaking his vows, but I do think it says something about the woman who KNOWINGLY has an affair with a married man. …

Congrats on not having that said to you, but you do realize many women DO get those comments when they don't wear makeup?

Wash your eyeglasses; they're disgusting too!

Fine...here's what YOU should do. 1) Never drink. 2) Never have sex with someone who has been drinking. 3) Never have sex with someone who hasn't given you very clear consent.

I think he'd be doing a humanity a favor if he did either.

How about bags? My STBX had more bags (duffle bags, briefcases, computer bags, tool bags, etc) than I've had purses in the last 20 years. Well, they did come in handy for packing all his crap in when I threw him out.

Yes, that brad tool and 4 foot drill bit are completely practical stuff to have around especially when the guy NEVER does any work around the house. I mean, it's totally understandable to have 4 similar socket wrench sets. Never know when you'll just have to have enough socket wrenches to go around at your next…

Oh, I don't know...maybe getting up on a table, putting your feet in stirrup and having someone put fingers or hang inside your vagina...that's a tad invasive to most people. The IV is invasive and even ultrasounds can be invasive.

Are you seriously going to keep arguing that birth isn't invasive? What planet are you from? You're just being so ridiculous with your 9 year old pregnant girls and saying that even giving birth isn't invasive because it doesn't need anyone else around. Wow, just...wow.

All the medical exams and blood tests that go with prenatal care are invasive. This girl is being forced to endure many invasive medical procedures with a pregnancy she doesn't want to carry.

There are MANY invasive exams and procedures involved with pregnancy. There are vaginal exams, blood draws, IVs, fetal monitoring, etc. Also, if labor is assisted and someone else puts fingers into her vagina...that's invasive. Your arguments about 9 year old pregnant girls and the weird notions you have about…

So, if it's not harassment. If it's just being friendly. If it's not violating boundaries...then why not approach men?

Another thing is don't assume that the woman needs YOU to tell her the risks about sushi, alcohol, exercise or whatever. That woman swigging out of a gin bottle may have just found out her pregnancy needs to be terminated anyway. Or everything's fine and she's just having a gulp or two which, by the way, isn't…

Yeah, if someone can't learn howt o fold a t-shirt it's absolutely deliberate. Doesn't speak well for him or bode well for the relationship.