It's awesome that you literally tell them. As a guy, I am always glad to get these things out of the way (ie: if you want something, I'm happy to guess, but I'll be way better at giving it to you if you use hints, suggestion and out-and-out bluntness where necessary). Part of the problem is that if you're a guy and…

But you've already had sex, so why stop for religious reasons?

Thanks for your very kind, generous words. If anyone would get that there are lots of reasons women have sex, and that orgasm isn't always one of the main goals, I should have known it would have been the lovely ladies of Jezebel.