Please don’t be a stranger, Maya! SNS is wonderful for your mental health!

Well, I donated fully knowing that you may or may not be able to swing this with the housing.   Spend it on mascara if you like. It was a gift.  :)

oh wow. This never happens. I’m online just when sns gets posted. I’m not feeling so great right now. While my depression is manageable now that I’m on Buproprion, I don’t seem to be able to lose the 50 pounds I gained when I didn’t count every calories/go hungry (really eat like other people eat). I’m back to…

Maya darling, please don’t ever feel like you’ve let anyone down! Not us, not yourself, not anyone. You’re an incredibly strong woman with a huge heart and your tenacity is inspiring. You should be so proud of yourself for how far you’ve come. Of course, you need to do what’s right for you and put your health first,…

I nominate my cat Shelby as the new official Grumpy Cat. Or at least Resting Bitch Face Cat.

Hi my lovely Jezzies, I’m going to be taking a break. I feel a complete failure, you guys have helped me so much to get the amount I need for my deposit on my new home. I’ve been trying to get the rest together and it isn’t going well. I’m going to keep trying in the next week because I want my new home but also…

As a physician, from the medical perspective I find this fascinating and the nurse is clearly a wonderful human being. That is a wayyyy longer surgery than a normal hysterectomy.

I know I sound like a broken record at this point but when people first started paying attention to that garbage Bodak Yellow track the only thing I was paying attention to was how she was perpetuating harmful stereotypes of a culture adjacent to my own in the video. In the eyes of many, we MENA folk are either…

You sound like you want to Marie Kondo your reproductive parts! (I’m loving it!)

Actual footage of the Keanu interview:

Okay so I’m not generally a pearl clutcher about, well, pretty much anything, but Jesus H Christ there is NOTHING in this article that makes me want to watch this nightmare. Like, nothing. I don’t even like knowing that there are human beings who think up stories like this. Damn.

I made it to regionals when I was wee, and it was NERVE-RACKING. The local bee was in my middle school, in a familiar environment. The regional was on a HUGE stage at some theater and it was very easy to get flustered, which I did. Otherwise, I might have been the 1988 champion. ;)

Actually, yes. Unfettered capitalism hurts us all. Please read this:

I think the Spelling Bee is stupid as hell (especially now that I know that it’s basically a racket), but I will say that I immediately judge and caste down people who write things like “defanate” or mistake “effect” and “affect”, etc. This automatically makes you a peon and NOT WORTHY OF MY CONTINUED CORRESPONDENCE.

For real. I have a lot of gay friends, many of whom came out when we were in high school, so you can probably imagine the shit the girls used to cop from boys outside our group. You know, nonsense along the lines of “wooooooot you should totally kiss in front of us!” Of course, this was only directed at the “hot”…

Right? HEY GUYS LOOK AT THE HOT LEZZERS AND THEIR SHAMELESS KINKY SEX LIFE, BECAUSE LEZZERS ONLY EXIST TO SERVE THE MALE GAZE/PROVIDE MATERIAL TO BEAT OFF TO”. Whoever wrote it is a piece of shit. A pox on him. Specifically his penis. I hope it falls off.

I almost died quitting cold turkey, don’t do that, but I haven’t had a drink since I came out of the ICU 4+ years ago.

My situation might not be comparable to yours but in case it helps: My substance abuse issues are heavily tied to my anxiety and going to therapy/having productive sessions helps me manage my cravings for alcohol immensely. My therapist has helped me to get significantly better at being mindful, and that skill in…

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Such a smart answer. It was obvious and yet I could not see it til you pointed it out. Clown Barn - Proud sponsor of Meghan McCain, Trixie & Katya and Ru Paul’s Drag Race.