I remember being 17 & it sucked! All I can say is I’m now Facebook friends with high school exes that dumped me & they are all premature balding/fat while I look better than ever at 33! I have a mantra of “this too shall pass”; maybe that will help you too. Because it will pass.

I don’t know why but Investigation Discovery is my go to veg out channel. Not sure what it says about me that I am soothed by, as my wife calls it, The Murder Channel.

Maybe he could ask Pussy Riot to perform?

I totally understand. I have my real picture on here & now just realized what if people I know comment on here too but oh well-too late for me! I’d like to at least be a friend to check in with you on here. I use to isolate myself so much in my addiction that I know how awful it feels. Keep in touch please & thank…

I want to help you out. How can we communicate besides kinja?

No one ever diagnosed me as borderline until this September (I’m 33) even though I have had a lot of mental health assistance (first drug rehab at 19). I didn’t know much about it (thought you had to be a cutter to be borderline which I’m not) or someone who lacked empathy. A lot of bipolar & borderline attributes…

There are certain criteria you have to fit to be borderline-engage in high risk behaviors, chronic feelings of emptiness, chaotic interpersonal relationships. Medication can’t treat it but usually it coexists with other mood disorders; anxiety, depression, etc. When I was finally put on the right antidepressants I was…

This skit on SNL kills me😂

In your family I am the scapegoat sister! Luckily with lots of therapy & medications I am happy & healthy (which means sober & medicated!) I’ve met other people who were borderline & thought “Oh cool, someone can relate” to find out “NOPE”. Just like any disorder there is a spectrum & it was scary meeting someone who…

My Mom wasn’t NPD but her Mom was and I was just diagnosed as borderline at the ripe age of 33 (highly suspect my Mom has it too). Getting the diagnosis sucked but started to finally make sense of my destructive behaviors & how I could change them. Yay DBT!

You’re welcome! I love talking makeup. I don’t care for fashion-I mean, I like to look nice but I don’t enjoy trying on clothes all the time-but makeup my jam. My wife doesn’t wear makeup so my enthusiasm falls on deaf ears but she does support my Sephora habit!

Have you ever tried Stila All Day Waterproof Liquid Eyeliner? It is so easy to put on because you hold it like regular eyeliner & the tip is like a felt pen (I personally have trouble doing liquid with the brushes). It comes in 11 different shades too!

Thank you!

I don’t know if my photo published but I’m wearing the fabulous color in my profile pic!

I love giving thoughtful gifts but my wife is super hard to shop for while she always knocks it out of the park for me. I think being upfront about some things you would really like is best so he doesn’t have to guess-I make my wife do an Amazon wishlist to make it easier for us.

As a fellow Sephora junkie (rouge member here which is actually kind of embarrassing !) I want the Play box so badly!! Been on the waiting list for awhile.

As a fellow alcoholic/addict in recovery this is all amazing advice. Like you I have had sobriety & a recent relapse that was thankfully brief but damaging. Wishing you all the best!!

I am the (recovering) addict/alcoholic & my wife went through what you are going through. I have to say that the only things that finally worked was her drawing a firm bottom line and it was the BEST thing for us both. I struggled with addiction & had lots of treatment prior but until I was forced into a program that…

I went to high school with Anne Hathaway (she was a year older) & was in all the musicals with her as a dancer in the background. My older sister who was a year above Anne & acted with her was the stage manager for one of the musicals. She was called “Annie” & I can confirm that she is an awkward theater kid who…

I laughed so hard at “may or may not be controlled in a Weekend at Bernies way by Lady Gaga”!!! My wife & I are Gaga fans (her way more than me) but even she couldn’t get into the whole “Cheek to Cheek” creepy nonsense.