LMS was the first version of that Yojimbo/ Fistful of Dollars story that I ever saw, and it's a compelling story no matter what.

I'll vote Color of Night, since I haven't seen Hudson Hawk, and I actually like Last Man Standing. I thought Color of Night was clever when it came out, but I must have been 15 or 16 at the time, so my taste was terrible.

No, that's strict voluntary. What is like to know is how and why someone with such an extensive sexual history hooked up with a virgin. I'm not saying that people have to be exactly evenly matched in terms of experience, but frankly, I think it helps if they are kind of on the same page. My lifetime number of partners…

My first reaction to this story was similar to yours (how'd she know it's HIS), but then I thought about it for half a second and realized that I'd be able to ID my husband's member if i saw it in a photo, so who's to say anyone else can't? It's a weird story, but I do find it sort of plausible that the husband likes…

Sorry bout that. Seeing Pulp Fiction for the first time at my college is a treasured memory for me. I don't think my audience was ill-behaved (maybe I was doing it too, I don't know), and all I knew about the movie going in was that it was universally praised.. I didn't even know what it was about, and it felt like…

Clearly, he was going to engage you in knife play, which is way wrong and way traumatic if you weren't consenting to that. I've been in that situation, but my protests were met with threats. He refused to see it as wrong because he was not cutting me. I ditched him (sadly temporarily) after he pulled that shit on me…

One clue is: Does her face light up (like, she breaks into a big old grin when she sees you)? Does she maintain surprisingly consistent eye contact with you? Do you think she invited you to stay over without being attracted to you? I find that implausible. Unless I was in the grip of PTSD at that moment (and I have,…

I would like to give you an internet hug (or a really sincere internet hand-hold if you're opposed to hugging non-puppets). Yes, many of my old friends are divorcing now. It is discovering. The problems in my marriage I cannot ignore anymore and I don't know if we are to far gone to change. The only bright spot seems…

That's low for me. We try to do every other day and it's working well for us after 16 years of marriage. I'd like to do it more, but he's girthy, and my body rebels at a higher frequency. He'd like to do it more too, by the way.

I hope not. It's… A hobby of mine. And my husband has caught me red-fingered (NOT LITERALLY) a few times. He's been turned on by it. But the key here is that our desire levels are mostly matched up so that it's not a matter of me neglecting him in favor of righty.

Maybe this is the time for me to point out that just because the boyfriend is abusing PLEASE doesn't mean he will abuse his next girlfriend. Once an abuser, always an abuser is a myth.

I though that was the norm for dudes.

I literally forgot what made me throw in on the "have a baby" side of that equation (my child is nearly 8). But, babies are awesome, even babies with special needs. All this time, I've been living in the suburbs and cannot imagine trying to take care of a baby in such tight quarters, although someone probably knows…

Agreed. My only experience with having a mouse was quickly resolved with a "mice cube" and some peanut butter. We drove it across the border into North Carolina and released it into a wooded area.

"It's just difficult with the way that porn actually manifests in the real world"

There is nothing inherently wrong with those three things!

Well, and people don't always recognize abuse when it's happening to them. Just using the word "abuse" for something in your relationship can have consequences that a person may not be ready to face. Saying "This may turn into something abusive" is likely a constructive way to approach it.

But it had to be a really sincere pumpkin patch!

You made a good choice.

You should watch the first episode and make up your own mind. I loved it and have reached it, even. And I think the guy playing Danny has plenty of charisma, he's just not meant to be good at everything already.