Sex standing up has been a treasured memory for me. (A man) sucking my breasts until they are empty and then sucking some more is heaven. Someone being generous and skillful at oral sex was awesome. Too bad he was violent. A partner inserting his finger in my rear while we were having sex and letting me just sit there…

Dear Mr Deltoid, that was your most amusing missive yet. I was afraid I would awaken the whole house with my laughter.

I was delighted to read your latest missive after your long abstinence absence.

What I love to do and can't talk about it is fisting. All that pain is so hot. Putting someone else in control of your body and letting them cause you pain is really intimate and exciting. Afterwards you have painful intercourse. I am perhaps not selling this well.
My other fetish is being hogtied or else bound arms…

Being dominated is great. It's like yoga class: you don't know what your going to do. They may even make you do chair pose (my least favorite), but it's still yoga and it feels good to just turn your brain off and do what someone else tells you.

We tried to have great sex while baking PuppyCat and it worked well for a while and then I got put on bedrest. They told me not to even masturbate. Spoiler alert: I couldn't not masturbate and kept PuppyCat in the oven until term anyway.

"Sports marathon fuck of attrition" there's a great turn of phrase!

Lactation is super hot. I know you don't need me to tell you, but I'm confirming there are more of us than just you. I love it, my husband loves it. Enjoy it while it lasts, Because that ability can go away without warning. Right now I feel like Troi on Star Trek the Next Generation in that episode where she loses…

I wish I had been brave enough to do it outdoors when I had the opportunity (it was only theoretically public). I was too mortified by the thought of being caught, but as an adult I realize that probably the people who might have seen would not have watched/cared.

Can confirm

You won't believe how much this didn't happen!

It's almost like Netflix doesn't really care how I feel!

I… I didn't know guys came in in-between sizes! You learn something new every Wednesday, it seems.

Your experience with those Catholic kids sounds similar to my experience being surrounded by Southern Baptists. They don't have a rite, but (the bad ones) are certain that they are forgiven for whatever crappy thing they do.

All those things (freaking out and later making awkward jokes) sounds like something I might have done. The bad jokes thing being a response to the awkwardness caused by the freakout. I take it your partner is not handling this the way you want her to, but I'm genuinely curious what other people do to move past…

"BDSM is the sex equivalent of operating heavy machinery" made me lol, but it's also a great analogy!

Well said!

Forgiveness is not a destination. You forgive and then later on something brings it back up to you or you realize that what happened was worse in some way than you had previously thought, and you have to work all over again at getting over and forgiving.

I was going to write I and say some similar things, but you've said it better. Also, since my family is so committed to their contention that nothing happened and I'm the bad person, it can feel like I'm the only one who has gone through these experiences and it helps to see someone else mention that I'm not really…

You're right about women being expected to give blow jobs. What I'm having a hard time with is the idea that somehow, out there, there are men over the age of 16 who are refusing to go down on their partners because ew yuck gross! I mean, you're putting your other body parts there and then you're going to call it…