ihadanamebeforenowitsgone
ihadanamebeforenowitsgone
ihadanamebeforenowitsgone

I know its dick of me, but I can't stand any of it. The event, the people, the stupid FB feeds. I know people have a good time and I should just let people enjoy life and not judge. But I can't help it. I'm judging all over the place. Judgment everywhere.

I have no problem with someone getting gender-reassignment surgery. I just don't understand why I should be forced to pay for it.

I imagine in a lot of families, there's also the effect where if a son does anything at all, he is applauded as being so generous and attentive. But no matter how much the daughter does, she gets nit-picked for not doing enough or not doing it exactly right.

What are some examples of horrible derogatory comments about men (as a group) that are common on the internet?

From what I can tell, the people who make the most cock/dick jokes are guys, not misandristic women. Is misandristic even a word?

Well if they need a sassy black friend I'm free this week.

I'm sorry, I realize this brainwashed, easily led woman is confused and insulting, but I've got a bit of a problem. As much as I believe that transgendered women and men should live as comfortable and accomodated lives as possible, free from discrimination or harassment, I can't just accept the whole "I feel I'm a

I identify as lesbian, but I have been with men in the past. Most of the men I was with thought it was nice if I came, but they weren't working to make sure that happened if I hadn't had an orgasm by the time they had. My wife, and all other women I've been with, don't consider sex over until we're both completely

Because there is a strong cultural conception that straight sex is "over" once the male has an orgasm. So, the logic goes, if the woman doesn't come first, she doesn't come at all.

So glad to see another stress smoker out there. But like glad in a I'm-not-the-only-one way not like actually glad because I actually hate smoking but do it when I'm stressed :/

I never stopped smoking. Oops! Xanax is my friend.

Exactly! It's so unhealthy, but ugh, I can't help myself. Meanwhile it's stressing me out so much I've started losing weight.

The guy i'm sort of seeing has a real knack for this, but with a catch. He will go silent for a few days, and I will too, and right when I get to the point where i'm like, I'm done, so done with this shit, which causes me to delete the texts threads so I don't get tempted, he will start texting me immediately, and

"When women do the same thing." I'm going to guess that 90%+ women figure out whether they like a guy before they sleep with him. That's usually why they decide to sleep with a guy. You have to admit going on a few dates with a dude and then texting him that you're not interested (or "fading him out") is not NEARLY as

Consent doesn't interest them. It's the same reason creepy misogynists troll Jezebel (and are losing their shit for having to be in the grey); there has to be an aspect of violating someone else's space (or privacy, or body) for it to be a real thrill.

How trans women (myself included) are products of male socialization .

Being trans is too much work and it made me neurotic. I simply stopped defining myself as 'trans' or a 'woman' or even 'feminine'. I dropped all labels, all pretence. I still live,dress and act as I did but I don't give myself a label that I feel obligated to live up to. No more pretending to like men, no more

Suicidal ideation is a bad thing and I hope anyone who goes through it survives and gets help.

She is using her suicide attempt to prove how bad her bullying was. All over trans narratives of male - females you see references to suicide to prove how horrible their life has been, or worse yet , they will use the threat of suicide to police what others say- I'.e. "If you point out that I received male