You are also screwing your waiter, since they have to essentially serve two drink with all your damn refills, but are only tipped off the cost of one.

I see down thread that you are not personally advocating for this, just explaining that some people may split drinks for this reason. Sorry my first response was a little harsh.

I really hate the promotion of celebrity diets, because they are consciously manipulating their metabolisms not for health but for aesthetics. Most are underweight which isn’t actually healthy. What an average person should do to be healthy is completely different than what it takes to have JLo abs at 40+. And it’s…

I hope you’ll cut yourself some slack, it’s not easy to work out regularly and cook healthy meals if you are a working parent. It’s definitely possible, but it’s a lot of time and effort, and there may be other things you value in life more. Good luck with whatever you chose to do.

I also think people ignore the emotional and cultural factors that prevent people from being healthy, even when they know what healthy is (for them). It’s not actually easy to be healthy and active, it takes time to exercise and cook fresh, healthy foods. And if you work a stressful, 60+ hour a week job, are you going…

Completely agree, and I’m very sorry about your sister. I was anorexic and bulimic from middle school to my first year of college. I had to unlearn a lot of toxic ideas about food, especially the idea that food is moral. I then became a yoga teacher, and it was a constant struggle to see my friends dabble in…

You have no idea whether or not he was in treatment before this breakdown. You actually don’t know anything about this person’s health or medical care, except that he had a breakdown severe enough to be hospitalized for over a week. Please take a step back and consider how insisting that West’s health crises was at…

People can have debilitating mental health crises, even if they are in treatment. Some people survive cancer and some people die, and we generally don’t assume that the people who die weren’t being treated or weren’t managing their illnesses.

This isn’t going to win more democratic voters, but it will walk back progress for women. The election wasn’t lost because of abortion. This is infuriating.

I once got a haircut at a salon with several luridly colored and very anatomically accurate paintings of vulvas. I literally couldn’t look away. If you are going to put up nudes in a place where others will be forced to look at them, I would kindly request that you eschew paintings of green and purple labia. They will…

Oh no! I hope you were ok!

Why don’t more guys use their hands when fucking or going down? Every girl I slept with instinctively knew to try this, although some women do prefer just one type of stimulation at a time. But most of the guys I’ve slept with don’t seem to realize it’s possible, or just don’t want to put in the effort. I don’t get it.

I like to smoke weed and put together IKEA furniture. It takes longer, but you get way less frustrated. It’s a fun Sunday afternoon.

As a woman who usually wears makeup and a cute outfit to the gym, I swear it has nothing to do with judging other people! I wear makeup to the gym because I don’t want to wash it off and reapply it afterwards, even though I know that’s technically better for my skin. And I like wearing cute outfits in general, so why…

IKEA is extremely affordable, and offers decent minimalist design. Usually furniture that cheap is extremely ugly, but IKEA furniture is just plain. When my partner and I had to buy a bed and a coach, the cheapest IKEA pieces were all that we could afford, and they don’t look awful and tacky the way almost anything…

I agree with everything Jane said about Grandpa. It IS sexual and creepy for him to grab your stomach or slap your ass, and it would be sexual and creepy if he did it to an actual child. Casual ass slaps are not a thing people do!

She’s a goddamn hero.

Women can feel a finger, so unless a dick is smaller than a finger, it should be big enough to feel. Now, some people really do love a monster cock, but dildos and cock extenders are widely available if it’s a sensation thing. If it’s an aesthetic thing, like being turned on by huge tits or asses, then there are fewer…

It’s next to impossible to pass any kind of healthcare reform. It was almost a miracle that the ACA passed, and Republicans have made it their mission to destroy for the last 8 years. If the ACA manages to survive this administration, Democrats needs to focus on improving their messaging and the law itself. Liberals…

I appreciate that she’s honest that she doesn’t drink alcohol or caffeine, doesn’t smoke, and exercises a lot. She seems really healthy in general, and it shows. I’m sure she gets work done too and can afford great skincare, but that should be expected for anyone who’s on camera for a living.